My boyfriend and I tyried to have sex, but I'm still a virgin and It feel painful. my boyfriend to relax me but I was afraid. I love my boyfriend alot but How can I show him when I cant even have sex with him.
Do you think he will break up with me becaue I'm a virgin? I hear most guys like their girlfriends to be a non virgin.
What should I do. I really want to try this.
2006-11-27 05:49:39 · 16 answers · asked by Sexy hola skirt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait. Don't rush it.
If you're boyfriend really likes you then he wouldn't dump you b/c you're a virgin. If he does, then kick him to the curb and find someone else that would appreciate you for who you are.
2006-11-27 05:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Shawn J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He shouldn't break up with you, just because he's not able to penetrate you, because you're a virgin, if anything, he should be glad you're one, at least he knows you haven't been sleeping around. It's natural for a virgin, to have a hard time at first, you just need alot of lubrication and he needs to be slow and gentle with you, when trying to penetrate you. Being rough with you, will only cause it to be more painful. The most important thing you need to remember is, don't have sex with him, just to please him, make sure it's something you truly want to do. You're only a virgin once, that's not something you give away, to just anyone, once it's gone, you can never get it back. Take your time, don't rush into anything.
2006-11-27 13:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he breaks up with you because you are a virgin, then you shouldn't be with him. There are many other ways to show a boyfriend that you love them. Besides not all guys like a girl that's giving it up. Don't rush. Oh yeah! How old are you? Anyways being a virgin is something that nobody owns but you. And if you do it you can never get it back. So, don't be in a hurry to lose it.
2006-11-27 13:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you feel light headed, then you need to stop... that is a bad sign. You can deal with the pain at first, all you need to do is not concentrate on what he is doing and the pain that you are feeling, and the pain will eventually go away. but, you have to tell your boyfriend that he needs to be careful the first time, just so it doesn't hurt too bad. don't worry about him breaking up with you, he should get over it once you get into having sex.
2006-11-27 13:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by J.Funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? You should take your time if you are under age especially. If he breaks up with you because you are a virgin, well my dear he doesn't care about you in the first place all he is interested in is sex not the person he is having it with.I am speaking with the voice of age please listen and maybe save yourself some grief latter in life.
2006-11-27 13:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think he will set him down and tell him that when you try and have sex it hurts.. he will understand if he loves you.... Try having him massage you down there before you actually have sex.... Tell him to take it slow and easy and work his way in at your pace.... Just relax your muscles and everything will be fine it only hurts until he gets it inside and there will be some blood but not alot.... when you are ready everything will be fine.
2006-11-27 13:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex with someone is not the only way to show that you love them. there are other ways of being intimate.
also, sex is not always easy the first few times. first make sure that you are ready for it. and if he really loves you and sees that you are in too much pain, he'll take it slow with you!
good luck
2006-11-27 13:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn how to touch each other and orgasm each other only that way (with fingers and oral) for several months until you know each other's bodies. Meanwhile your bf needs to read a book and learn how to deflower a virgin without giving her any pain.
2006-11-27 13:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to have sex, and get over being a virgin
2006-11-27 13:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by ama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try using A LOT of lubrication and tell him to be gentle and slow at first... it helps the pain
2006-11-27 13:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by tanj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋