my boyfriend doesnt call me anymore...and i feelfor some reason he's cheating on me. lol...We dont talk much anymore...and we end up hanging up on each other. Eh, i just want to know what you people think. he explain to me before that i havent been meeting relationship requirement...things i didnt know existed.
2006-11-27 05:46:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First how long have you been dating and do you want to really work on this relationship? If so I would just sit down and confront him, but nicely and tell him you want to work on these things and what are these things you need to work on. Maybe try , both of you writing a list of things you both want to work on. But, remember you shouldn't change completely for someone, you are who you are and if that person doesn't respect you then that person is not worth it. There are other people out there who will desire you for who you are and not want you to change. Good Luck Girl!
2006-11-27 05:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by A.K.A NK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt talking to you,just let him go.You deserve someone better who can always be there for you,someone who will call you always,love and care for you.He could be cheating on you of he appears to be so detached from you.Just dump this guy and find someone who can give you all that.
Dont even bother about his accusations as that is CORE LIE.if he held you responsible for the negligence that is nothin but total lie and you shouldnt believe that .Just kick him in the *** and let him go.
2006-11-27 05:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what those requirements are and what his standards are.
If he has mentioned them before then he is being a loser/jerk or he is trying to tell you that the relationship has ended and doesn't want to do the dumping. He wants you to end things because he doesn't have the encourage to do it and he obviously like confrontation and being honest. Kick his guy to the curb and do yourself a favour move on. Forget him.
2006-11-27 05:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and make sure YOUR requirements are met...
Some guys are a$$holes and are not always good, remember being in a relationship should be a good, positive and more importantly a life enriching experience...
Not conducted at the end of a phone with heaps of critisism...
Dump his @$$
2006-11-27 05:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jaws P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste another second on him, plllleeaaasseeeee!!! If you feel he's cheating on you, he probably is. You don't want him in your life anymore if he won't even talk to you and tell you what's up! Move on to someone who will treat you right and with the respect you deserve. Once you move on and find someone new, he will want you back so bad!!! His loss!
2006-11-27 05:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not call you anymore, sounds like the relationship is over. Move on.
2006-11-27 06:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is all about sticking together no matter what. If you don't feel like it's worth it than maybe you should reconsider your options. If it is you'll come to some kind of compromise. Good Luck!
2006-11-27 05:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HIM!!!! He was using emotional blackmail on you when he told you that you weren't "meeting relationship requirements" That usually translates into something of a sexual nature. Something he wants to do and you don't. Kiss him goodbye and good ridance
2006-11-27 05:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to get rid of your boyfriend. You deserve better and he doesn't seem to be "in" this relationship. There are better men out there! Good Luck!
2006-11-27 05:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EXACTLY I DIDNT KNOW YOU HAD REQUIREMENTS TO MEET... WELL I WOULD TRY TO LET HIM GO BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY HES NOT ON THE SAME PAGE AS YOU....
GOOD LUCK.-
2006-11-27 05:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋