i MET THIS GUY ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO AND WE SEEM TO CLICK AND HE SEEMS TO BE REALLY INTO ME HOW LONG IS LONG ENOUGH BEFORE SEX. I'M REALLY TRYing TO WAIT THE APPROPRIATE AMOUNT OF TIME THIS TIME. I'm trying to figure out if he's really this sweet or just until he gets some a**
2006-11-27 05:42:46 · 20 answers · asked by sweet_journey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks! i really appreciate it! I reported her to the site for harrasment.
2006-11-27 06:04:24 · update #1
until he marries you!
2006-11-27 05:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by veeta675 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you've waited this long and you're engaged, then wait until the honeymoon. Most people don't have the patience, personality, or interest to wait. If you made it this far then wait just a little longer.
2016-05-23 10:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are comfortable! There isn't any right or wrong answer...it is about you and how you feel. You can wait 6 months or 2 weeks....the question is....how will you feel when it is over? If you will be glad you shared the experience with him even if he leaves you....then the time is right. If you will be hurt and angry if he leaves you....then you must wait.... follow your heart....sharing yourself is the most intimate part of the relationship....when you can be thankful for the experience...then have your fun.........
2006-11-27 05:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Zesmom 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Safest thing to do is follow your own intuition. Why not test him in a diplomatic way?
You should have fun if you think you are ready for it, and if you are sure you can handle it.
You need to to be sure if jumping the bandwagon would compromise your friendship with him or not...after all sex is frienship set on fire!
2006-11-27 05:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Usman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is wait it out and see if he only wants to get some, or hes in it for good. If you're a virgin and you really trying to save it for some one real, then wait and see if it is for real.
And if you're not a virgin, and things are working out, give it a month to see if he sticks around without any, and then do what you should. =D
2006-11-27 05:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brystal - Stop talking about your self.
As far as your question.
I dont think there is a TIME limit. I has sex with my girlfriend the first weekend we meet. that was 2 years ago.
If you wait too long that could be bad.
I would not be with someone that made me wait that long.
if you are clicking then go for it. Dont worry about what anyone else thinks. They mean nothing to you. JUST WORRY ABOUT YOU!
2006-11-27 05:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by remailer000 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
that's up to you. get to know him. have you met his parents, sisters, brothers or friends? has he taken you out anywhere?some guys are sweet if they are after one thing and then they boogie. some are sincere and stay. if hes worth keeping he will wait and remember safe sex. p.s. i did not like the comment where someone called you a whore it pissed me off. how does one figure your a whore by asking a simple question. ignore the ignorance sweetheart. thanks mom figure.
2006-11-27 05:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6-12 months, consider yourself "worth the wait"
2006-11-27 05:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no appropriate time just whenever your ready if you want to wait and figure him out go ahead
2006-11-27 05:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noone can answer this but you until you feel that you are both ready go for it but only when your ready but if really like you then you will know when the time is right hope this help u
2006-11-27 05:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until u feel u are ready but don't just give it away---try waiting at least 6 mos
2006-11-27 05:44:42 · answer #11 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋