2006-11-27 05:40:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only as long as you both are committed to it.
You see, distance is a factor, but so are SO many other things. EVERY relationship has factors that allow it to prosper, or in contrast, die. For a long distance relationship, distance can become a deciding factor.
Have you seen the statistics on divorce? Okay, so knowing that those people are living in the SAME space, they still break up. Because distance is not an issue (except for the exception) then there must be something else at play here.
The truth is that long distance relationships face several other factors that come about because of the distance. Lonliness, boredom, etc... It is, in most cases, jsut harder to have a relationship with a person that is not near enough to share daily emotions in person.
However, that said, I have been in several, and I can share with you that at times, a long distance relationship can be beneficial, in that you long for the person more, and you can end up appreciating each other more, and not allowing the small things get in the way.
The funny part of it is that a long disatance relationhsip can be a good test of if you truely want to be with that person in the long run. If you can get by all of it and miss them that bad, and STILL want to get through all the relationshipstuff, then maybe you two have something that no distance can ever diminish.
Best shot: Great communication.
Good luck!
2006-11-27 05:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Scott D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. It works as long as you are both committed to putting the time and effort into it. Plus you have to have a very trusting relationship to begin with. If you are both generally independent people, then you're better off. If either or both of you HAVE to be together often, you'll never make it long distance. These types of relationships take work and will only work for the right type of people. If it is for a predetermined amount of time, you might be OK as well, but if it is indefinite, you might have difficulty. Analyze the situation and see if it will work for you. You have to look at it neutrally. You have to ignore the fact the yes, you want it to work, but instead concentrate on whether it will really worked, based on the previous criteria.
Good luck!
2006-11-27 05:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by QueenChristine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think long distance relationships are doomed from the get-go. The only way they could possibly work would be between two very mature individuals and I mean age wise. I don't think young people can commit to that type of a relationship. It would be too easy for them to yield to peer pressure and temptation. Your older individual has experienced more of life and can deal with more time alone.Peer pressure usually isn't an issue at least not with women could be with men if their friends all like to be real wild and harrass the poor guy.
2006-11-27 05:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will last as long as you want it to last. Both of you need to put a great effort to this relationship. Yet, this gives you the time to really know the person. Be spontaneous. You can send each other cards, letters, even little care packages. Have fun with it.
2006-11-27 06:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a long distance relationship and so far we are going a little over a year. I have seen him twice at his home state since meeting him and he is coming here this christmas and new years. Yes, I have my doubts, but he wants to move here once I get my career started, which will be very soon. Its hard though, but we're determined to make it work. we're hoping for the best and preparing for the worst. Please pray for us.. Thank you! oh i also agree with Defleppar.. I have learned to let him have his life b/c I have gotten insecure before.
2006-11-27 05:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by claria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long each of you want it to last.
this is my story of long-distance relationships.
Im south african and met my greek husband in sa 28years ago he was on holiday. it was more like a holiday romance to me. anyway we kept in touch through letters and phone calls he visited on an number of occasions. This carried on for about 2years. He then came to sa and asked me to marry him. I accepted and have never looked back. We have been married for 25years and its as if we met yesterday. I really very lucky to have found him. We moved to Greece after 10years of marriage and things are as good as ever. So i think its up to the 2 of you if you want to make things work.
goodluck whatever the outcome may be.
2006-11-27 05:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4-6 months
2006-11-27 05:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months
2006-11-27 05:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With commitment and communication... it can last until you are able to live together in the same area, if both parties truly believe that this is for them, with no question.
2006-11-27 05:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,i my case it lasted for 10 months,but i would say on an average LDR lasts for 2 months.
2006-11-27 05:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋