Original post: I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. Last night we were watching a movie and he wanted to have sex. For the first time I said no, that I just wanted to watch the movie. He got up and said he was going home. I thought he was joking but he actually left. Now I don't know what to think. I called him about a half an hour later and couldn't believe he was really home. I asked why he left and he said that he didn't want to interrupt me during the movie. What gives. I'm so confused.
Update: I spoke with him yesterday morning. I told him how he made me feel and he apologized. Said he didn't mean to make me feel that way. That from my reaction he didn't feel I wanted him here so he left. I accepted his apology but didn't call him for the rest of the day and he didn't call me either. Why apologize than not call later? He's got his laptop and some other things here. Why not at least call to get these things? Men, I just don't get them.
2006-11-27 05:36:42 · 9 answers · asked by aquestforaheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's how life is. Most men are so complicated that trying to figure them out is totally a waist of your time and the same goes for most women. Seems to me that he got pissed off cause he couldn't get off inside of you and used the movie thing as a cop out. He seems like an insensitive jerk or something. You do you and make yourself happy and if it's being with him so be it but if it's not then find someone better who appreciates you for you whether you have sex with them or not. Be Blessed Sweetie
2006-11-27 05:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahah....he left just because you would 'put out'?? What a chooch. Baby...if this persists and he's holding a grudge over not getting alittle action then call him, tell him to come get his junk and start a new search for someone who doesn't throw a temper tantrum over sex.
2006-11-27 13:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he was used to getting more than just company and it hurt his pride when you turned him down. Nothing in the world wrong with you turning him down by the way. He just passed up on a wonderful oppurtunity to spend time with you. My advice is to call him and tell him to come get his stuff and find somebody out there that thinks of you as more than just something to screw.
2006-11-27 13:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by knite_hawk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is an inconsiderate idiot.. you know I could of said much nicer words.. but after all I am being polite... you know when dating someone for two months.. he should somewhat know what you are like...you probably never get them.. cuz once you think you got them figured out... they will just have another thing that will make your head spin...... just call him up.. come right out bluntly ... " What the hell is going on" tell me .. talk to me.. thats the least he could possible do for you.....
2006-11-27 14:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he felt that watching the movie was more important to YOU then being with him. You WOMEN send so many mixed signals. Hard to figure you out sometimes.
2006-11-27 13:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was there only for sex, and when he didn't get what he wanted he went home. what part of this picture don't you get? also he is playing mind games on you by saying it was your fault as you are not interested in him.
2006-11-27 13:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sorry about that you should probably hang around more guys... well good luck!
2006-11-27 13:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody gets men
2006-11-27 13:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by burnbulb7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is embarrassed b/c he got rejected give him time
2006-11-27 13:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋