Should I call him?

Question

I had sex with a man on thursday which I met at a local bar he was the bartender at the location. We had a great time and great sex however, when he dropped me off at my house he didnt ask for my number but he gave me his buisness card (he is a photographer). I like the bar and I go often I dont want it to be wierd when I show up again. I like him, he is interesting what should I do?? Should I call or take it for what it is a one night stand?

Answer 1

If you go to the bar often just go and have a good time, if he says something to you be professional, don't just ignore him. But if he just wants to take you home for another bed confession, I would probably stay away because then you know that's all he wants. but, definately never ignore him because guys love it when they can get under your skin and you come out looking like the bigger person in this situation. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Just call. If he doesn't answer, doesn't call back if you get voicemail or acts aloof on the phone, you'll have your answer. If you gave him your number, honestly I think he'd have called by now if he was interested in taking it further. But since I don't know that, get it out of your system by calling. And if it doesn't go anywhere...continue to go to the bar and act like nothing happened. You didn't do anything wrong. You'll be the bigger person for moving on with your life. Good luck!

Answer 3

ok lets see...you could either walk past him in the bar and give him a flirty look and a wink and let him come to you, after all if it was that good he will surely be coming back for more.

or call him and see whats up

on the other hand if he is a photographer he might be looking at pictures of you right now...especially if it happend at his house
i know this one from experience.

either way just remember you are the one who decides if you want it to be a one night stand, not the guy!!

Answer 4

When he gave you his business card I think thats what he was telling you it was, his business card, thats it. I would leave it at that. If you go to that bar again, see what happens. But I wouldn't call him. You chose to make it a one night stand when you had sex with him now see how he acts with you but to tell you the truth, I wouldn't expect much out of it. Good luck either way.

Answer 5

Take it for what it was now. When you go back to the bar, chat w/him and see what kind of vibe you get from him. Remember, he is a bartender and I'm pretty sure you're not the first girl he goes home w/after work.

Answer 6

What was it to you? If it was just a one night stand don't sweat it but if it was not don't be mad if you see him making time with another girl. Unless you do call him and let know how you feel. Call the number it may not even be a good number if not u will know what it was to him.

Answer 7

You will never know unless you call him girl!!! He gave you his card! That's a green light!!! Go call him before he thinks he didn't satisfy you sexually or something stupid like that! Men always wonder why women don't call! Take a plunge! Good Luck!!!!!!

Answer 8

Drop into the bar as you normally would. Take your clues from the way he acts.

Answer 9

DONT CALL. THE NEXT TIME YOU GO INTO THE BAR IF HE ASKS YOU WHY YOU DIDNT CALL THEN SAY YOU WERE REALLY BUSY BUT YOU PLAN ON IT. THEN YOU WILL KNOW. AND IT WILL ONLY BE WIERD IF YOU MAKE IT WIERD,

Answer 10

I guess you could call him since he gave you his business card. However, I would play it cool when I called - meaning don't sound to eager because you don't know if he was just giving you his card to be nice.