i am catholic and i am planning my wedding, i dont want brides maid cuz i dont want to go thru all dat hassle (choosing them n picking dresses) what role do brides maid play and do i really need to have them?? and if i do how many do i need??
2006-11-27 05:22:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Basically they just stand there and look pretty. All you really need is a maid of honor to hold your flowers while you say your vows. I wouldn't go through the hassle.
2006-11-27 05:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to have legal witnesses to the wedding. I have only ever heard of them being a Maid of Honour and a Best Man, but maybe they don't have to have roles in the wedding at all. Check with your parish priest.
2006-11-27 16:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a Maid of Honor and Best Man and that was it.
2006-11-27 13:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to have bridesmaids. You will need two people to "stand up" for you, in other words, sign legal documents that state you have been married without being forced and also in a legal manner.
2006-11-27 13:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should have the wedding how you want it
i saw a show this morning in which the woman let the 3 bridemaids got to pick dresses they like, didn't have to match, just what they would keep and wear in life.
They are there to support you emotionally I think.
2006-11-27 13:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everything is optional - do what you want. You just need someone to sign the marriage certificate, but that can be your parents or something.
2006-11-27 13:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by bustylaroo99 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did not have any- my husband and I walked together to the altar. It is your day, so do whatever you want.
2006-11-27 14:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only had a matron of honor. It's your wedding, you decide.
2006-11-27 13:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Deana S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's optional. It's your day and I hope you have a nice one.
2006-11-27 13:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by lou b 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think it has become a must nowadays because everybody is doing it. So u must have maids, two of them.
2006-11-27 13:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by kingteka 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋