I just want a completely honest, open guy who doesn't feel the need to pick up girls at bars to find a girlfriend, doesn't lie about himself, hasn't slept around his entire life, doesn't need porn to be a part of his life and would never cheat on a girlfriend. Where the hell are these guys at? It seems that all there is left out there is JUNK.
2006-11-27 04:31:25 · 18 answers · asked by Kellie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And since I'm getting requests for my age....I'm 24. And no, I'm not going to lower standards (get over myself) or believe that this kind of guy doesn't exist anywhere....that's a bunch of crap.
2006-11-27 05:11:59 · update #1
I suggest that you date lots of guys, but don't sleep with them. That is important.
Here's why.
I am a guy and I love sex but I would not be with my wife now if we had not spent time getting to know each other, seeing if we could have real fun together without the complications of sex at the beginning of our relationship (we waited about 6 months and then dated for 4 years). This is a good way for you to weed out the jerks and get to know a guy to boot. That way you know something about him before you mix it up. If the guy is really interested, he will be cool with the idea. If not then move on.
My two cents.
Good Luck
2006-11-27 16:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by tcb9020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find yourself a nice BIG church.
I know, mostly nerds in there. But it pays to look closer. Look for the older dudes. The ones that have been through more in life. The ones that have been battered down. The ones who are seeking God. OK, you might end up with someone who has too much excess baggage. Look closer, you may find a gem in there. The ones that have figured things out. Good luck girl!
2006-11-27 12:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Doraemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm one of those that are called good or "nice" guys. I would never cheat on a girlfriend and I will always stay true. I've learned a lot since I've been growing up and I want the chance to make it come true. If you want to know more about me you can email me Bigcheweyme@yahoo.com
I love to meet new people!!
2006-11-27 12:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah well i am here i want a good life and sometimes i go to the bar just to look and hope i run into a decent girl but it never happens i have never cheated on anyone in my life so what do you mean by real good guys? i would like to think that i am one so if you want email me ok
2006-11-27 12:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont want ot baost but
to tell u the truth i m honest
i dont go pickin girls at bar n all
i wont lie abt may self
alll is not junk hope u find sum 1
2006-11-27 14:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are looking for an angel instead of a man. Such creatures do not exist any more. But you did not mention the age of your dream man or angel. If I know that, may be I can be helpful.
2006-11-27 12:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by jikg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fill all requirement in that list, i think
I have never been to a bar(i don't drink)
I try to be honest in all my dealings(try mind you i am not perfect)
Never slept around (still a virgin)
(still getting over this one. and hate myself for ever getting into it.)
I have never cheated on a girlfriend,(still a virgin)
oh and btw i am 17... ah well huh?
But you can find a guy like that if you keep trying,
They are hard to find but they are out there
with love,
Nik
2006-11-27 12:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha i think i got the guy your looking for! lol, sorry, but no really i think the key isnt just the guys but also the guys that get your attention. if u usually date hotter guys because you want a hot guy then most likely you get an asshole just like most girls if a guy wanta hot chick most likely she is gonna be a b!tc* and sleep around. so try looking for some1 who you feel you normally wouldnt like. like a guy who is just "ok" looking, thats how i found my man he was interested in me and i would never date some1 like him but i just got my heart broken from some1 i would normally date and so i gave my bf a chance and i have been with him 3 years str8 no break ups here and there, just smooth sailing. lol. so try some1 a lil different and always be honest with them. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-27 12:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I live in Cali. that's not a good place to find a real good man because first of all some of them are golddiggers, some of them are lazy, some are nice but end up cutting you off. I knew that I would have to find mine out of state. I did.
2006-11-27 12:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by Careatha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew how you felt. I hated jerks and was happy being single. That meant less drama in my life.
Little did I know that my boyfriend was right under my nose.
He's a really good guy.
You'll never find love if you keep looking for it.
Have faith in God and know that He has a plan for you.
He will bring you the one in His time.
2006-11-27 12:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋