Why do women shoot down a nice guy, but will let a total jerk run completely over them? It just never made any sense what so ever.
2006-11-27 04:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by Roger W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because some women are selfish and they are frivolous and nonchalont enough to disregard others feelings without a second thought.
2006-11-27 04:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by D'Whannah Lowe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest with you, us women are just as fickle as you men! We have our flaws and bad habits, too. But we also have our good points and hopefully they outweigh the bad. But sometimes, there will be a woman that thinks she can "tame the wild one" or "fix him" if he has something wrong with him like maybe drugs or drinking. For some reason some women are attracted to the bad boys. I don't know if it's the challange or what. I myself would like to find someone who doesn't drink, do drugs, or get into porn. But my god, I can't believe how hard it is. Anyway, if a woman finds a nice guy and shoots him down, it could be that she's getting scared of getting too close, thinking she's gonna hurt him before he hurts her. Or maybe he's not enough of a challenge for her. I'm 39 so I'm getting too old for all these games! Dating's hard enough!!!
2006-11-27 12:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by November 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not one of these types of women, but, nearly all my friends are. And, some women just like the chase. With nice guys, it's easier, you don't have to deal with a long drawn out chase, because they're nice! Don't worry. There is a women out there who is looking for an upstanding guy. Don't let the bitches get you down.
2006-11-27 12:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nervous Nelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause girls are insecure. They do not think they deserve to be treated like ladies. It will take about 5 jerks for them to realize they should have went out with you and by the time that happens they have had 5 different weiners in them and no real"nice" guy wants there leftovers
2006-11-27 13:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a genetic predisption for women to be attracted to bad men. I have seen this over and over again in my life. The problem is more acute when they are young, but can carry on throughout their entire life in many cases.
If you are a nice guy, expect to find a woman much later in life, after she has had sex and bjs with 100s of nasty bstards.
2006-11-27 12:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The women who do that are damned idiots. I hope that you wouldn't even THINK about dating a chick who would go for that sort of thing.
Challenges my ***. Challenge meaning that you have to fight for the guy you want with some 304803843 other girls???
Whoever said challenge is one of those dumbass girls mentioned above.
2006-11-27 12:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah not all of us shoot down the nice guy.
2006-11-27 12:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Everybodys Fool*~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we shoot down who we want-and "other" guy isn't always a jerk-maybe he is and we shoot him down too in end
2006-11-27 12:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women want a "boss", we don't a man who we can run over, we want a manly man
2006-11-27 12:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_love_vi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like challenges! People want what they cant have so play hard sometimes .
2006-11-27 12:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋