She is never home...in the late hours of the night.
Ive been discovering wads of money in her pockets....and she recently questioned me about birth control....
I think my daughter is a whore...what should i do???!?!???!?!
2006-11-27 04:26:32 · 14 answers · asked by knightwolf665 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ive seen this many of times before, because ive been a psychiatrist for 16 years. You need to have more authority over your daughter. Go through all of her things and punish her greatly. Dont be afraid to use brute force.
2006-11-27 04:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by caso60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is to never call her a whore regardless of the situation. You need to try to get through to her and find out what's really going on. If you have to stay up most of the night to make sure she stays home then do it. You need to do whatever it takes to protect her from this lifestyle. If you have to, call the police and have them find her when she is out past curfew. Get her into some counseling to try and help her. You are her parent and have to help her.
2006-11-27 12:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she?? If she is a minor, I would suggest you get some control. You are the parent, correct?
Why is it that parents come on here and call their kids names, and never hold any accountablility for their lack of parenting skills??
If your daughter is a whore, chances are it is because of the way she was raised! Take a look in the mirror, take care of your responsibilities as a parent....that is what you should do!!!
2006-11-27 12:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about, "Being a parent". I'd would say, depending on her age, that it might be too late. You might try asking her a few questions of your own and spending more time with her. Most younger people are just looking for attention, and if they don't get it at home, they get it other places. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-11-27 12:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Smiley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not say how old she is. If she is that bad then Booth Camp might be necessary. Also the situation did not happen overnight...You may have allowed it to go downhill slowly not paying attention as a parent should, your rescue mission would therefore have to be with loving arms and helping hands.
2006-11-27 12:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i think you should try and sit down and talk to her but try to speak to her as if she is an adult dont not treat her like a child depending on how she is.she maybe doing this cos she thinks that is how adults are. she is asking for help but also her friends she is hanging with will not be helping. try spending more time with her e.g shopping, cinema, ics skating things she would enjoy get one of her nice friends to come along. keep a bit more of an eye on her ask her about the money and where she is getting it from ask her where she is staying and who she is staying with and who she will be with, if this doesnt work then i think you need to get help as a family good luck
2006-11-27 12:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by nicola_scriven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her on the Jerry Springer show!
Just kidding. Question her about the money. Where is she getting it from? Take away the things she uses. Cell phone, car keys, whatever it is that she likes. Put her on restriction. Take her to the movies, do family things with her. Explain that if her actions don;t change, that you'll have to take legal action.
2006-11-27 12:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by NOT as smart as a 5th grader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit her down and just talk to her and let her know what ever she is going through tell her you are there for her no matter what.When i was growing up i wish my mother would have talked to me.. She just needs to know that you love her and that you will be there no matter what...... Then you should get on your knees and pray and ask jesus to help you... Trust me i know i have a son who was headed down the wrong road but i serve jesus and he has been great to me ... have faith and belive... Don't loose her to that world out there i will keep you in prayer.........
2006-11-27 13:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by JINE GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
If you think she is
Then she probably is
You need to get your answers from her.
What kind of parent are you to let your "whore" of a daughter stay out all night long?
2006-11-27 12:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should start by not pre-judging her, even if it's true. you need to talk to her in a clam manner. if you come at her wrong, she will get defensive and may make things worse. what did you say to her when she brought up birth control? she's seeking you help when she asked about them.
2006-11-27 13:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋