i had a breakup ten months ago, left it in the past but wanted another relationship and now that i've got it i don't feel as happy as i thought i would. what are your opinions?
2006-11-27 04:13:34 · 13 answers · asked by Tiffany Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe there is something else that is bothering you.. there is obviously something else in your life that is making you unhappy try and find out what it is.. and go about resolving it..
and like someone before me says.. you can't really be happy untill your happy with yourself
2006-11-27 04:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are not "used" to this new man in your life. you became comfortable with you past relationship and now it's all different. It might be too early for a relationship. If you can't been happy with the man you're with now then it's too soon. it could also mean that you went into this relationship for all the wrong reason. To be in a relationship and you don't really care about the guy. Sounds to me you should leave him and take sometime to get to know yourself again. then when you've found yourself and realized you can be happy without a man, then you are ready for another person in your life. hope i help and best of luck
2006-11-27 04:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Chrystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't happy with the person you are dating now. Did you have a really bad break up? If so, maybe you are putting up a wall to protect yourself. Ask yourself if you are with someone you could imagine being with for a very long time? What are you looking for in the relationship? What expectations do you have? Are you looking to have just a little fun, or do you want something meaningful and serious. If you want something serious, you need to be sure that you are with someone who could bring you happiness. Play it by ear. Take things slow, and try not to take life to seriously.
2006-11-27 04:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like wanting your favorite toy for Christmas and then getting and then feeling a little empty because you have it now what big deal. You've built it up so much in your mind that you're looking to be disappointed. Don't be so expectant for perfecfection. Let it take it's natural flow and don't let it ruin your relationship. Don't start to think bad things like it's only going to last so long, and well he's going to start acting just like the last guy. I did this at first when i started dating my boyfriend and to tell you the truth it messed things up for a while. Don't get possessive either he'll start to back off if he feels you're too needy. give it time and embrace it
2006-11-27 04:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you still need more time after the first break up, OR maybe you built up the new relationship to much in your own mind, either way you make your own happiness. Something drew you to your new honey; focus on the things you found attractive
I wish you good luck and great love
2006-11-27 04:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by pokey's gumby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens when you expect to have a great relationship but you find it not as interesting as you thought ,so it makes you a bit disappointed,I think you need time to realize if this person can make you feel good in the relation or not ,you may just find someone who is not really your type!
2006-11-27 04:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no options on this the only thing is going on is that you let yourself get overly excited about it and then when you got it then the challenge was over...That is normal in some people and that shouldn't bother you that much...Just try to work out with it and see what happens.
2006-11-27 04:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person you're with is obviously not the perfect fit for you. Something is lacking in the relationship and you need to either discuss it with your guy, or end it.
Maybe you're comparing your mate to your ex. Only you know what's missing from the relationship. If the guy you're with can't fulfill your needs, then it's time to move on. Talk to him.
2006-11-27 04:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be considerate, the person you broke up with and the one you're seeing are completely two different people and if you got hurt by the first, you dont have to make the second guy pay. dont play with people' s emotions its really dangerous game. just be friend first
2006-11-27 04:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. It is better to go out with someone you have been friends with a long time. So become friends and then take them out.
2006-11-27 04:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Redneck Midget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋