me and my bf sort of had sex the other day well.. he tried entering me and he did slightly but not all the way in n then he came out because he wasn't hard enough, he then rubbed my vagina with his penis so am i still a virgin or not?
serious answers only please.
2006-11-27 04:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by lauren h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
There is no right answer here. Technically, you may or may not be a virgin any more. However, the real question is whether or not you wanted that to happen. It seems you may be feeling a little guiltly or uncertain. If you wanted this to happen and are feeling guilty, you should speak with an adult you trust (parent or family member is best).
If you did not want this to happen, you need to accept that you may not be a virgin any longer (although that may not really matter). However, you should continue to act as if you are a virgin. In other words, don't let any guilt you may feel allow you to do this again if you are not ready for it. Also, don't simply feel it doesn't matter any more since you may not be a virgin. You may be surprised how helpful talking with an adult may be.
Virginity is not truly about penetration. It is about your maturity level and being truly ready or not ready for this kind of step. If you are young, take all our advice, keep your clothes on and substitute with kissing, hugging and holding hands.
Above all, enjoy your 'youth' without the burdens of this sort of problem. You can always have lots of sex later, when you are ready.
2006-11-27 08:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jeffrey Hay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virgin.
2016-05-23 10:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eehhhhhh yes and no. it depends if he entered inside of your for 2 or 3 or 100 seconds it doesnt really matter you aren't considered a virgin. But "dry humping" doesnt take somebodys virginity. just be careful at what you are doing and make sure you realize the consequences before you let somebody take your virginity. save it.good luck!
2006-11-27 04:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope you are not a gradeschooler, but if you are please go and talk to someone right away. talk to your mom or dad any trusted adult or a school counselor. you could even go down to planned parenthood--it's confidential and talk to them. your question sounds like it is coming from a really young person, so what i think you need is for an adult to listen to you.
sexual intercourse is for adults or people that can emotionally handle the experience. it is not for people that are not sure what is happening to them. we are born sexual beings and sexual intercourse is not a dirty thing. however, there are a lot of sickos out there, including bf's and you sound like you need some direction. you should at the very least know what is going on when someone puts their hands or genitalia on yours.
2006-11-27 06:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by octchild23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a virgin. Sex doesn't have to be good to count. I hope that you are in the wrong category and you aren't a "grade-schooler".
2006-11-27 06:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you ask this question under grade-schooler? How old are you? If you're that young you don't need to be having sex.
2006-11-27 04:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not.
And if you can't answer this question on your own, you aren't old enough to be having sex!
2006-11-27 04:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by wyllow 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Nope you are not. Sorry! Now no man will respect you. Men only respect virgins.
2006-11-27 06:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't think you can be counted as one anymore.
2006-11-27 04:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Isabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a virgin. Sorry but your not..............also why is in the gr ade school section??????????????????EW
2006-11-27 09:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by smartypantsleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋