you just told some one u dated for 2 years u dont have love for them any more and we can just be freinds..........then two hours later he walked out in the road an got hit by an 18 wheeler anhe is now in the hospital on the line of dieing and i am really sad an wanna die
2006-11-27 04:04:43 · 9 answers · asked by cheybaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Visit him in the hospital, as a friend. Be clear, however, that you are not getting back together with him. If he tries to make you feel like his injuries are your fault, turn around and walk out of the room. If anyone else tries to make you feel like his injuries are your fault, explain to them that people can't control other peoples actions, they can only control how they respond. You are NOT responsible for his accident. If he was trying to harm himself, then that was HIS action, HIS poor choice.
2006-11-27 04:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by steve d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel very badly that this person is hurt but not accept responsibility for their injuries. People deal with lose differently and some will try and get as much attention as they can by trying to make the other feel guilty. But this is a pretty childish way to work through hard times, and if you were honest with this guy then you should not feel anything other then pity for his actions. You could send him a get well card and perhaps visit but make sure he knows that you are doing so as a friend. Sorry to sound so cold hearted but that it reality.
2006-11-27 12:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell again that I am sorry, and pray to God that he pulls through. I would react the way a friend would act but not blame myself. Life has ups and downs but the way you handle it is up to you.
2006-11-27 12:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh
I would DIE!!
really I hope I never go through this sitituation
coze I cant handle it...
but goodluck to u
stand beside him
as a friend
2006-11-27 12:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for them and make them feel loved, even if it is only friendly love. Friendly love is better than no love at all.
2006-11-27 12:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by amelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do, if you meant that friends thing, visit him until he is better, that is what friends do after all. If it was suicide attempt on his part, help him get the help he needs, that is what friends do.
2006-11-27 12:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by hinduhammer8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry!!! just explain the best you can. if they really loved you they would understand and want you happy. and i hope they live!!! thast a sadstory!
2006-11-27 12:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see him help him through that
2006-11-27 12:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by bballboyrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your gut feeling is saying, go see him
2006-11-27 12:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by go4itgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋