he treats me like crap and yet i still love him cause he lets me stay and his house
2006-11-27 03:46:42 · 21 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess there's nothing you can do if you love someone who treats you like crap in exchange for a place to sleep. Besides move.
2006-11-27 03:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said who got the divorce in the first place. That sure has something to do with it. If he was the one that got it then it is over and he is only feeling sorry for you. If it was you then why if you loved him did you do it in the first place. I would have to figure that it was him that got the divorce since you said you still love him and if this is true then if he was capable of divorcing you then he fell out of love with you. It is over! This is something you will have to face up to and if you really love him as you say then let him go and live his own life and have some happiness with someone else because he is not going to be happy with you under foot. Even though this hurts you, you must face up to the truth. It sounds like you are really using him anyway or you would leave. Ask him to help you get a place of your own and if you do not work, then get a job. Start living a life because where you are right now is not living one. You are only messing his life up more and ruining your own.
2006-11-27 12:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by craft painter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L E A V E H I M ... unless you LIKE being treated like crap? Does it make you feel good to be treated like crap? Do you deserve to be treated like crap? Will you ever find anyone who DOESN'T treat you like crap if you are still living with a JERK that treats you like crap?
You deserve better. You need to empower yourself by moving on. Treat yourself with some respect and LEAVE for good.
2006-11-27 11:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by family_matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new place to stay with someone that does not treat you like crap. You don't love him, you depend on him, big difference. Move out and move on!
2006-11-27 11:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out of his house. Why do you need to be around someone who treats you like crap? Come on now!!!!!! Get your act together and move out! How could you love someone who treats you like crap?
2006-11-27 11:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why, are you even staying at his house? If this guy is treating you like crap. dump his sad butt. There are guys out there better for you.
do you want to be continuall treated like that or do you want to be happy with a man that treats you like a lady?
Get some happy feelings for yourself by ending this relationship once and for all. you dont have to put up with that.
2006-11-27 11:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You love him because he lets you stay in his house...?
Something is wrong there...
LEAVE HIM!!! If he treats you like crap then he doesn't love you... Someone that is truly in love with you will treat you like a princess...
Good luck!!!
2006-11-27 11:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else that will let you stay with them. there are other people that have houses other then your ex.. stay with your parents or like a family member until you find someone else to date or stay with. you dont need to be treated like crap.
2006-11-27 11:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by EMMY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he treats u like crap take the hint "get out" and move on easier said then done.
2006-11-27 11:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like crap then leave!!
2006-11-27 11:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋