And now he doesnt seem to want to meet me. My mum knew we were meeting up to talk about a job but she didnt know the sex happened. But my mum mentioned it to his sister-in-law who is my mums best friend and she gave him a bit of a boll*cking about it. He knoews I am going through a lot with hospiatl tests and family rows and sleeping rough, but he still doesnt say just come round and have a drink, sleep in the spare room. I know i cant just be a booty call to him as he has WAY WAY WAY too much to lse trust me. I do love him very much. He is 46 and I am 16, its not illegal, its legal in this country at 16.
I think he may just be really scared incase someone finds out as if the mother of his younger children found out she would stop him seeing them, and his older children (older than me) would tell him to sling his hook and probably batter me!
I text him today asking if we want to meet tonight, and he rang me but never mentioned it!!
Do u think he will call??????????????????????????...
2006-11-27 03:44:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, that's quite an age gap!! 30 years....I think it would be in your best interest to just end things with this man for several reasons! The main one being he is your moms ex-boyfriend, second. the 30 years difference! Its going to get way too complicated for you two to continue this non-sense! You mom is going to find out sooner or later! you know that right?? Parents always find out!
2006-11-28 02:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in deed a confused child. While it might be legal in your state at 16 does not make it right. This man is old enough to be your father and has taken advantage of you. Yes he has a lot to lose and so do you. Why would you want to put him in a situation like this. You havent thought about yourself you are a booty call. You can never be seen with him in public and sneaking around is never a good thing you usually get caught in the end.
2006-11-27 11:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should end it. It may be legal, but the fact that you ARE just a booty call should show you that he has no true intentions for you. Plus, you are somewhat betraying your mother. Would you sleep with your best friend's ex? It's the same situation and if your answer is yes, I don't think anyone should care about the way this turns out for you... because that's just not cool.
2006-11-27 11:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by jesser312 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Biiiiiiig mistake little girl. Apparently, you were just a booty call to him. Let me see...he's 30 years older than you, he has kids who are older than you, what do you want?? If you do end up w/ him, you will be miserable, his family and your family won't accept it. So take a good look and tell me:"You really believe this will work out?" No. Stop hassling him, and drop it. You made a mistake, don't try it again.
2006-11-27 11:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be seeing this man. Just because it's legal doesn't make it right. He is a sick man taking advantage of a 16 year old. You should take to your mother about it. You are doing nothing wrong but he is.
2006-11-27 12:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Angelique S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just not kool babe. He is 46 and you are 16. In 10 years, this low life will probably be dead and you'll just be 26. Now why do you want to go ruin your life like this for??
2006-11-27 11:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Doraemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, grow up. If you're old enough to SCREW YOUR MUM's EX and tell us it's legal, you're old enough to know better.
It would be sick if you were an adult. But you're still a kid. No matter what the laws in whatever dumb country you live in say.
2006-11-27 17:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by tooinvolved1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a nasty old man. Why would you mess with him, and you see all the women he's gone through? Oh yeah, you're only 16. THat explains it
2006-11-27 11:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sick that is your moms ex have some decency forget about that all guy and go to school and better your self
2006-11-27 11:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MOM'S LEFT OVERS?? HOW GROSS!! YOUR 16 GO HOME AND PULL OUT YOUR BARBIE DOLLS AND STOP TRYIN' TO PLAY GROWN UP, I PROMISE YOU'LL LOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-27 11:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋