i have a long-distance relationship since almost 9 month... everything go well.... this last weekend my bf went out with his friends (he told me he will). everything's fine. but now i logged in myspace and i saw a comment in his myspace of his best buddy girlffriend's best friend sayin this : "farley's (thast the place they were) was so much fun this week! i can't wait for our heart-to-heart"
what she meant with "our heart-to-heart"???
On the other hand, my bf, i trust him cuz he's even more in love with me and i recognize that.. and he even wants to marry me... but unfortunatly i had sufffered so much in the past that for me, nowadays, its kinda hard believe in promises and love.....
sure im in love with him but i heard some american girls are super sneaky and this is what i think about this one; even more after he told me his friends were talking about my back saying they think he should take care in case im a golddigger bla bla bla ...
what can i do?
2006-11-27 03:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm in a long distance relationship too, so i know it can be hard especially since you dont get to see the person as much as you'd like to and you have to just trust that they mean what they say when you talk, since thats your main way of connecting with them. the "heart to heart" is probably just a conversation they might have, i wouldn't make much more of it. you just have to trust him and hope for the best. be patient, as tough as it might be and if anything starts to bother you, just talk to him about it. its better to be honest than to bottle anything up
2006-11-27 03:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by citygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about the comment. My Space is a relationship killer by the way. Long distance relationships are hard so you will have to make decisions. he is probably going out and talking to girls. You will have to decide if you can handle that. I agree with you on protecting your heart (by the way I'm American and have known some sneaky foreign girls) It's not just American girls. I would be a little worried about the comment but that's when you have to decide if you can handle the long distance relationship. You should talk to your boyfriend and tell him your feelings. But remember as far as long distance relationships go out of sight out of mind.
2006-11-27 11:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nearly impossible to maintain a long distance relationship for 9 months without one or both people wanting human interaction with real people. A "heart to heart" means a deep, meaningful conversation. American girls are no worse than any others.
2006-11-27 11:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him about it without sounding as though you don't trust him. Maybe you could make a joke of it?
I would say to you though (I assume you are not a native English speaker) that 'heart-to-heart' does not usually mean a romantic conversation. It's usually used in the sense of two friends of either sex having a good conversation about what's going on in their lives - putting the world to rights generally. So you don't necessarily need to worry.
2006-11-27 11:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
American girls are no more or less sneaky than any other girls..
You are going to have a tough job competing for a guy by
long distance when a local girl can just rub up against him any time
she wants to...
2006-11-27 11:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just me, but I think that you don't have the reason to be worried, especially when you're so sure that your boyfriend loves you. Besides, didn't you say you trusted him? So, why bother? Finally, I don't think you should read his emails or whatever that myspace may be. So, just be yourself and don't let anyone (especially some bimbo) get you down.
2006-11-27 11:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i suggest talking to him about it and tell him how u feel and ask his Buddy's why they seem to want him with her instead of u if that's what the case is. I hope all works out it sounds like Ur in a tight spot. i hope all goes well. if he loves u the way u say he does then he'll listen and understand Ur concern. good luck
2006-11-27 11:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by DLF'N'GRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about those comments. Don't be aggressive though. Just talk to him calmly about it, tell him that you trust him, but that you have been hearing things that make you feel uncomfortable. Its the only thing you can do for now, I'm afraid. But you'll be surprised at what communication can do. Don't jump to conclusions though.
2006-11-27 11:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately nothing...unless you are willing to confront him about it...
I would just let this one slide...keep an eye on things...if more comments pop up then ask him about it or you can always post loving comments on his page so that she sees you are his girlfriend...
Good luck!!!
2006-11-27 11:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not there he will get it else where..
Don't trust him if you not around for that long..
It's not always the men.. Bitzhes are not so nice anymore..
2006-11-27 11:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋