My bf is 21 yrs old and i met him at a frat party i snuck into and i lied to him and told him i was 18 and well i am really 15 and still in highschool.He got me pregnant and i dont know how to tell him that?or my real age.
2006-11-27 03:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Julia E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, lord. That sucks. You have to just tell him. You realize, of course, he could go to jail for that, right? It was very uncaring not to tell him right from the start.
2006-11-27 03:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now you've got a real problem, because when you tell him, he's going to be eligable for jail time. It doesn't matter that he didn't know at the time. This is why you should never ever lie to someone about things, and never have sex with someone you've lied to. You'll never know what lies are going to haunt you.
There's only one thing you can do now: come clean. Tell everyone everything. Don't beat arround the bush, lay it all out, and be ready to be called every bad name you've ever thought of by everyone. He's going to hate you, your parents are going to be mad at you, your friends at school will likely turn away from you, pretty much, it's going to suck. If he's a decent guy, he's going to try and make it right, but in this case, who knows that that is going to mean. Your parents will most likely try to have him thrown in jail, and most likely they will be able to. You'll end up raising the child more or less alone. It sucks, but it's better than the endless custody battles that will end up if you try to avoid it all now and he finds out in three years.
2006-11-27 11:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't told ur parents yet, now would be a good a time as any. If you can calmly explain to them the situation in a mature manner then there's a chance that ur guy wont be sent ti jail. As long as your parents approve, the state cant do a whole lot about it. And just be sraightup with him, there's no point in ignoring the situation anymore. But you lied to him, so you owe him the truth.
-ash
2006-11-27 12:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ash420Granito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex with him and now he is looking at jail time good job!!!! Next time be honest and do not sneak into frat parties cause you are way too young
2006-11-27 15:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you in a bad shape but just go up to him and tell him your real age. Dont hesitate to tell him because if you dont it will catch up with you in the future
2006-11-27 11:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if u relly like each other and think u have a future then u have to be honest.
if this is just for fun then brake it off
2006-11-27 11:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by hiya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. you need to tell him the truth asap. the only thing that matters now is your baby.
2006-11-27 12:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your screwed. Just tell him. You already hurt him enough anyway.
2006-11-27 11:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You better just tell him ASAP
2006-11-27 11:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh god...
just say it, tell him u didnt think ud end up this way
2006-11-27 11:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by caroline_trvs 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋