im seeing this polish girl who iz 25 yet iam only 19 she thinks im 22 (my fult) i really like her but should i tell her my age or keep quiet about itlet her figure out herself
2006-11-27 03:24:46 · 28 answers · asked by PAUL B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her she probably wont mind, im also seeing a polish girl shes older than me and doesn't care. learn some polish to if you haven't already, kochanie (co-han-ye) means darling and goes down well ;-)
2006-11-27 03:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by alex r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to fess up sooner rather than later. I would tell her you really like her (that way you can see from her reaction whether she is really pleased to hear that) then add 'but I've not been totally honest with you'. She'll think you've been seeing someone else, or have an STD or are gay or something, so when you say it's just your age she'll be relieved.
I think you then need to reassure her that this is (and will remain) the only lie you tell her, that you are not normally dishonest.
You also need to show her by word and deed that despite being only 19 you are not an immature teenager. 6 years is not a massive age gap provided you are grown-up and responsible enough for an adult relationship. Only you will know whether you are one of the 19 yr olds who is.
2006-11-27 03:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww it's like that song, Jenny don't be hasty by Paolo Nutini.
She thought paolo was 23 because pretended he was but then he was honest with her and told her he was only 18 and then, well she dumped him.
but to answer your question, yes I think you should come clean - because she will eventually find out herself and all hell will break loose and if you do tell her then she'll either just break it off or she may forgive you and carry on like nothing has happened. I think that's better than keeping it quiet.
2006-11-27 03:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her! If she finds out on her own then she'll have a hard time ever trusting you. And she will find out eventually. Better say it now (early in the relationship) than later.
2006-11-27 03:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 to 25 is no big deal apart from the fact you lied from day one.
And that wasn't a good start to a relationship now, was it?
2006-11-27 03:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oups, sorry the lie is out there, and there is no good time to admit to it, and being found out will not be any better, just tell her and hope for the best.
2006-11-27 03:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her now. If the relationship progress's and you haven't her finding out later will be a big problem.
2006-11-27 03:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes , everyone likes to believe in those sweet little lies. My advice would be...if you relationship is tending to be serious, you better tell her...cuz she might get hurt ...and never forgive you that you lie to her.
good luck.
2006-11-27 03:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her ASAP!!! how would you feel if she lied to you? No, you wouldnt like it and you would find it hard to trust her wouldnt you? Try and make a light hearted joke about it, good luck your gonna need it!!!
2006-11-27 03:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by ann_jacques 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋