i've been seing this guy... but it seems he just wants me to kiss *** n-e ways well i us2 call him alot & now i am just cutting it off a lil. then he txts me he wants to see me..when he finally comes & im trying to initiate that i like him his kind of a jerk why does he do this?? last time he went to my house & acted like a big time jerk , then asked me if i was mad i said no that i was more alike dissapointed... then i jus gave him a Cd i borrowed 4rm him .. he just said " i don't need 2 b dealing with this im leaving" & then left. i didn't give him his cd bck bcuz i was being mad... i gave it 2him bcuz when he came he told me that he didn't care if i burn it 4me that he was goin 2take it with him.. i begged 4it he jus didn't wnt2 leave it .that's not the reason i was dissapointed the reason was that im so nice & i jus don't undrstnd why his always being knd jerky to me.i ask wut did i do he says nothing.i don't undrstan why he does this.wut can i do instead of jus not deal with him?
2006-11-27 03:19:15 · 7 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are falling right into his little game. This is a common tactic for some guys, its the old treat them like sh** and watch them come back for more. If you lack the self respect to stop seeing him then he will continue to disrespect you. It is that simple. Watch out he might start playing nice all of the sudden and then thats when hes gonna try to get into your pants.
2006-11-27 03:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously something is really bothering him badly. It may have nothing to do with you at all, but SOMETHING is bothering him. He seems to just be taking it out on you. Why don't you sit him down and talk to him. Even if he doesn't tell you what it is, he might admit there is something bothering him, then you can deal with it better or even ask if you can help. He just sounds angry, and if what your saying is true, he just needs some comforting or just someone to listen to him. But there are aslo people out there that want to control you completely and he's not able to do this, therefor ehe is mad at you. This you need to find out for yourself. Talk to him.
2006-11-27 11:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you have said this person has a controling, abusive nature. The relationship can be all about him or not at all. Get out quick and save yourself a great deal of heartache.
2006-11-27 11:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by D J Honestly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say what all the men should say....Dump him! He sounds like a total a*shole and I can't understand why you need men's opinions on this matter, it's totally common sense!
2006-11-27 11:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him ask him to change and after a about weeks if he don't change live him
2006-11-27 11:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pharaoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a buthead and you should just get away from him.
2006-11-27 11:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't you in school ?
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2006-11-27 11:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by pick1side 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋