I am a guy that is curious to know. How would you like to be approached by a complete stranger (male) when you are out and the male is interested. What is the best way to approach and grab your attention? Let it be at a bar, gym, anywhere. Honest answers please.
2006-11-27 03:19:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just like a guy to be himself..and start up a conversation. But not using creepy/cheesy pick up lines. You really can tell if someone hits it off by the conversation they start up. If you have a great personality, you won't have to worry about being yourself! Personality is really what counts! (to me, anyway)
Best of luck!
2006-11-27 03:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by KrisJH24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont use any cheesy chat up lines. you such just watch and wait... you can always tell if girls are interrested cause they'll keep staring and they'll try to keep laughing so that you'll think that they're fun.
If you think the girls intressed just keep moving closer to her, say shes at the bar-go to the bar and get some drinks and say a nice passing comment-like the musics great in here are somthing-you'll tell if their interessted from there answer to either keep them talking or retreat before you look like a fool.
2006-11-27 03:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by rollenova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you approach her, try to make and hold eye contact. Don't wink or make lewd gestures, that's just creepy. Simply look at her and smile when she looks at you. If the woman seems to be receptive to that, then it should be okay to approach her. Just be nice and don't feed her any lines. Introduce yourself, and be honest.
2006-11-27 03:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by candycane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually become interested in someone who toys with me. They smile and say hi, disappear for awhile and reappear later to see how I'm doing. Usually the reappearing gets me interested. I may even start approaching them if I am attracted to them. If I'm not attracted to them then I try to avoid them. Good luck.
2006-11-27 03:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need 2 leave it alone, some women dont want to be bothered by men or approached by them automatically. Make eye contact, and then that will determine if you need to apprach or not. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-27 03:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by caligurrl3634 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly and if you can make some kind of funny remark about something the girl is doing (but not making fun of her), that can set off a spark for her to want to talk more.
2006-11-27 03:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmyq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like a guy that is very polite. If I am out drinking a guy to buy me a drink. I like a forward guy that can carry on a conversation. Good luck.
2006-11-27 03:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sandie/Patrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer when the girl is not with someone. Maybe at............I don't know the mall....ask her something like 'Do you know where this store is?' If she is interested she will walk you to the store if not she will point in direction and also if not she will walk away. Make sure it is a cool store.
2006-11-27 03:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Just an Actress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the look is the most. When you glance at each other just a little longer than appropriate...then usually things initiate themselves
2006-11-27 03:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by hero2allbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach me with authentic interest in who I am, no pretend or mindless chatter please !!!!
Having beautiful eyes would go a long way in grabbing my attention.
2006-11-27 03:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋