i have boyfriend i love so much and we have regular sex but now am nt with him coz we are in different states, i get 2 see him hang out wit his exgirl i ask him he says no strings she calls him and his text messages to her reads ilove u at d end. he calls me regularly and he professes his undying love to me. can i know ways to detect his cheating on me coz wuld soon meet.
2006-11-27 03:18:10 · 4 answers · asked by Babycakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys live in a different state. What do you expect to happen? Do you expect him to be alone? What has failed here is your understanding when people are far apart. It's your responsibility to be realistic, not him. It would help if he did his part, but that's not the issue here.
It's you and your false expectations about relationships-particularly when you live far from your mate, in a different State.
Sorry sweetheart.
I'm guessing he said that not to hurt your feelings and he has no intention of doing so, but he's a human being and so are you.
Call him and tell him that this is not realistic and to maintain a friendship.
2006-11-27 03:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last thing you wanna do now is assume. you have no reason to think he is cheating. he might just need personal time. it is healthy to have a life beyond your girlfriend or boyfriend. this gives you an opportunity to take some personal time out too. if you really feel as if he is ignoring you then let him know how you feel and if he still denies it then forget it, give him his space. you take time out for yourself, then if he starts noticing that something isn't right he'll confront and you can tell him that you are giving him his personally space. please don't assume he is cheating because 1st of all if he is...he will NEVER admit and he'll make you feel bad. and if he really isn't cheating then you'll feel bad for assuming. so it is a lose lose situation for you. just let time do its thing. Ive been through this same situation a couple months back. don't make any drastic decisions, dont make any decisions at all. call up some of your friends, go to the pool, mall, movies etc, invite your boyfriend. if he doesn't wanna go..then o well. sooner or later both you and your boyfriend can come to some sort of conclusion. but trust me...dont accuse a guy for cheating if you have no real proof because you will never win. you will just end up breaking up and still feel like **** cause you will never know the truth. If it is really bothering you that much then just investigate....and i know all girls just naturally know how to do that =)
2016-05-23 10:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his ex is texting him saying she loves him he should either cut ties with her or you. It is hard to have long distance relationships for that reason.
2006-11-27 03:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your gut intstincts on this one. Don't think that there is any easier way to answer your question.
here is the poll of the poeple
90% - He is cheating
1% - he is not
9% - he is gay
2006-11-27 03:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by OmarSD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋