i completely fancy the pants off 1 of the barmaids in my local pub,without asking her (in case it makes the rest of my nights up there uncomfortable)are there any obvious signs she may be interested in me too?i always had a sneaky suspicion but mybe you can help.
2006-11-27 03:17:45 · 9 answers · asked by max w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm, a tricky one. Does she pay you more attention than the other regulars? Does she smile whenever she sees you? Does she look into your eyes? If so, that may be a sign that she's interested. You could try sending her some flowers with a note attached saying something not too specific to keep her guessing who they are from. Or you could tell her that there's someone you fancy but you don't know how to go about asking this person out, to see what her reaction is. If she gives you lots of help this could mean that she's maybe not interested but if she doesn't help you, that could be a sign that she's jealous. Gets complicated doesn't it?! Best of luck anyway!
2006-11-27 04:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a barmaid once. She used to come over to where I was standing at the bar and talk to me and we'd have a laugh and a joke when she wasn't busy serving or washing glasses.
I knew she didn't have a boyfriend so basically I said to her one night, "I want to take you out sometime." And she was like, "Ooh, yeah, okay then." So we made arrangements and went out.
If you get on well with her, then there's no harm in telling her you'd like to take her out. If you've never spoken to her much, then you might want to start by talking to her a bit.
Just don't say anything if you're completely smashed, I've done that before with a different barmaid and I don't think it went down particularly well. You don't want to balls your chance up.
2006-11-27 04:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes YES sometimes NO. Pregnancy signs are the same as signs of a period coming so sometimes it's very hard to tell. tHE VERY BEST way to know is to wait till a period is late and do a hometest. I was 7 weeks before i found out with my daughter I NEVER felt sick pregnant sore boobs ANY SIGNS of pregnancy but, a + test. With this pregnancy before my period was due i felt hot, irriated, crampy, sore boobs, everything smelled terrible. All pregnancy are differnt even if a women is having no signs and a period is late it's best to test.
2016-05-23 10:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the rules of attraction fall out the window when she is tending bar, she is supposed to be nice, and maybe flirt with the punters. Other signs like enlarged pupils and emulating each others actions cannot be gauged while she is not concentrating just on you but trying to do her job.
All you can do is try to spend as much time as possible around her (without stalking) or asking her out and maybe falling foul of her answer.
2006-11-27 03:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
barmaids get hit on all the time, you'll just have to ask her out. she could probably write a book about the lines shes heard. just be honest with her and ask her out.
2006-11-27 03:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she go out of her way to talk to you everytime you visit? Does she try to prolong your convos? These are signs she wants to get to know you better. That and she might act flirty.
2006-11-27 03:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Action speak louder than word. So act now before it too late.
2006-11-27 03:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she ever given you a big smacker on the lips? /that would be a pretty conclusive sign I would say
2006-11-27 03:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she serve you more often than the other bar staff ?
2006-11-27 03:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋