Hey, there is this girl in the class I really like (love). We have talked a few times and when she did she usually seemed very excited. I sit beside her in only one class, though we are all in the same classes. Usually in the class we sit beside she talks to her female friends and sometimes askes me for help. I have tried locking my view onto her in some classes where we sit infront of each other but she just looks away. I want to make it so that she knows me more, but I am very shy. Going over and talking to her during class aswell or even doing form class would embarass me and probley her. I am 14. Is there anything I can do to get talking to her, either it being doing something in ICT, or something else.
A second question is, is it possible through myspace/ or bebo to find out weither she likes me or not, without making anything look romantic and her telling all her friends!
Please help! TY!!
2006-11-27 03:15:38 · 8 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not sure if shes shy, and im not a wuss, I JUST CANT WALK UP TO HER!
2006-11-27 03:23:10 · update #1
Uh-Oh, high school crush. Do Not stare at her, it will creep her out and she probably knows already that you are her puppet. High school is usually mostly about status and teenagers finding out how popular they can be. If you're serious, then find out about her by asking her about herself and her interests, see if anything she cares about matches your interests. Try interesting her in some community or school activity that is non-committal. If that doesn't work, she is probably not interested, move on! The last resort is to ignore her, , not very nice.
2006-11-27 03:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....first of all...this may feel like love but its' not. You'll realize that in a few years. I'm not going to say that your too young and need to grow up because it hurts when you like someone and can't date them or whatever even at 14. This is just a crush. Maybe it's such a big deal for you because its' your first real crush...who knows. If you really want to date this girl then DON"T BE SHY. Girls go after the guys that are more outspoken and brave. You'll never get anywhere in life being shy. Good luck to you.
2006-11-27 11:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this really 'killing' you? Stop it!!! Just ask her to go out. Stop being a wuss. Be forward, and stop with all the back door methods. Just ask her out.
If you just cant walk up to her, then you're not ready for dating. It's not hard to do, but if you can't get passes the fear, then how will you be mature enough to handle the responsibility of a relationship.
2006-11-27 11:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by FRANKFUSS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself dude and don't be afraid to fail. There's just too much to tell you, I don't know where to begin. I guess the best way to know someone is just to be a friend. Be a good friend first, then see where you go from there. Good luck mate.
2006-11-27 11:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Doraemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look her strait in the eyes, (but not in a creepy way), and just say,"Are you from Tennesee? Because you the only ten i see"
e-mail me if you dont get it.
2006-11-27 12:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by rachel v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start a little conversation.and the second question tell her on myspace tell her "can I ask you something" and then ask her if "she'll tell any one" if she says no then ask her.
2006-11-27 11:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Grand Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just start a conversation and see how it goes. and yea you sound pathetic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-27 11:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by country grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..........................is the girl shy?
2006-11-27 11:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Just an Actress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋