I invited this girl to my house and she said no and then 5 minutes later she came up to me and invited me to her house? why do you think this happened?...sometimes I hit on a girl then i get rejected then a few days later they come up to me and start talking to me? why do girls always have these second thoughts?
2006-11-27 03:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by private0909 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happens sometimes. Sometimes you have to think about what your response would be. Some people are not spontaneous.
2006-11-27 03:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you arent being serious. They might also hear and see that you ask a lot of females to come over to your house.
2006-11-27 11:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "hard to get". If you ask and they say no, they expect you to keep trying but once you give up they come to you because they want to see you but you quit trying.
2006-11-27 11:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you set off some sort of a creepy vibe?
2006-11-27 11:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because you don't seem desparate. They like they idea that rejection is no big deal to you.
2006-11-27 11:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She feels more comfortable in her domain...just learn to work with people and their comfort zones. This will make you more well round...
2006-11-27 11:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just feels safer in her own home with familiar surroundings.
2006-11-27 11:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
becuz they dont like being ignore. if you had beg her to come at your place she would of not invited you to hers.
2006-11-27 11:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by ms attitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a girl says no she means probably , when she says probably she means yes and when she says yes , she is no more a girl
2006-11-27 11:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by knightgown_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly unsure about your relationship with and relationships in general. give her time, and don't get cut up about it.
2006-11-27 11:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by shadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋