I dated this guy about a year ago, we broke up and he has stayed in my life as a friend since we broke upp but now he wants to get back with me and he says that he is really in love with me, he even walked to a pay phone at 12:30 at night to call me and tell me good night because his cell phone died, but i dont know if he really loves me or if he is just pulling my chain. should i trust him and give him another chance because maybe it is love, or should i just drop him all toghether!?!? I really need help with this one !!!
2006-11-27 03:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by pitbull luver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would he go through so much just to pull your chain? I could do that from here without leaving my seat.
2006-11-27 03:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need to know why the relationship ended the first time around. How has he been as a friend? What are your feelings toward him regardless of what he is asking...? These questions need to be answered...
Ultimately, you will need to take that decision. Are you physically attracted to him? Does he treat you the way you've always dreamed someone would treat you? Does he do little things that show that he thinks about you? Look at the whole picture...actions especially small insignificant ones really show how someone feels for you... Keep us update!!!
2006-11-27 11:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has some thing changed in your feelings for him? Has he echanged what you did not like about him? Do you love him or just like the attention? Some guys will go a long way to get what they want then dump it. This guy may love you but if you do not love him all you are in for is lots of pain. Ask the questions of yourself and think about it then you will come up with the right answer for you.
2006-11-27 11:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by D J Honestly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOve???this is love...:
The best way to know if a guy is in-love with you is when...
1. He remembers the most peculiar thing about your conversation... It means that he is listening and very interested in you.
2. He does not hesitate to do cheesy things for you in front of other people. Example: He gives you love letters publicly.
3. He is not afraid to talk to your parents about you... It means that he has good intentions.
4. He gives you a simple gifts that probably he made himself.
Example: A compilation CD
2006-11-27 11:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by ayskyubx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a try and it sounds like he loves you but ultimately do you love him or at least have feelings for him? maybe after you two split up he realized that there is nobody else like you and he wants you. trust me as a guy i wanted to test what i had was real so we spend time away from eachother to make sure we can't do without eachother... if that make sense sry if thats confusing but i hope it helps. tell me how it goes soccer_dude8866@yahoo.com
2006-11-27 11:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just start dating again and see were that goes. If you feel good with that then take it a little feather. One step at a time and slow that way no one gets hurt.
2006-11-27 11:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how YOU feel. You don't mention that. If you care for him - sure, give it a go. Maybe he made a mistake - everyone's entitled to do that. If you are thinking of dating him just because he likes you, then question your motives.
2006-11-27 11:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Empea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he realized some things. Just take it slow maybe tell him you can try going on a few dates and see how things go.
2006-11-27 11:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably still has feelings for you i was just in this situation my ex has a fiance but he told me he still loves me but i would ask him if he is serious about still loving you if he isn't just leave him for good because who knows there might be someone else out there worth your time .
2006-11-27 11:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the question is why did the relationship end to begin with and how do you feel about him?
2006-11-27 11:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋