I mean, if you really love somebody, is it bad to be willing to try anything to keep that person?
2006-11-27 03:08:12 · 10 answers · asked by amy-j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No nothing abusive, i just mean not giving up on a person you love
2006-11-27 03:24:48 · update #1
Yeah... If you think about it... Love is balance. Kind. Selfless. But you must respect yourself, and establish healthy boundaries for yourself.
If you start by wanting to please someone or wanting to do stuff to keep them, chances are it's not a really healthy relationship. Once you start loving yourself, things will fall into place for ya.
Good luck, sweetie! I hope you find healthy love and SOON!
2006-11-27 03:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the use of that word sounds like a person trying to hang onto something that may not be that secure. There is no need to do anything in a relationship that you disagree with just to try and keep someone interested in you.
2006-11-27 11:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "keep" human beings like they're some kind of object or animal/pet. If someone loves you (the same way or better) the way you love them, then it will be natural to be together. If he doesn't feel you, let him go. You've got to be worth more than that. Don't you value yourself? If not, what can you possibly offer this person who obviously doesn't value you either? Get real, little girl!
2006-11-27 11:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its bad to do anything to keep that person. What do you mean anything? You ought not to talk in broad generalities. For example....are you willing to commit a crime to keep a person? I say do whatever in reason and within the law to keep a person. As ethics goes that would be something you must decide on your own.
2006-11-27 11:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that is unforgivable in love is cheating and hitting. I dont think that you should try that hard to keep someone even if your in love. if you have to try hard, it probably means hes not in love with you.
2006-11-27 11:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS BAD TO TRY TO KEEP WHAT DOESN'T BELONG TO YOU. LOVE DOESN'T CHASE....WHAT'S IT'S AFTER ...THOUGH LOVE IS A CONSCIOUS DECISON YOU HAVE TO PROVE THAT BY KEEPING YOUR MIND AND NOT LOSING IT IN THE CHASE...YOU WILL ONLY BE HEART BROKEN AND TAKE IT WITH YOU AS BAGGAGE IN THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP !
2006-11-27 11:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good to hear you love someone everyone needs someone that will make their hear tingle at times and if you think its worth fighting for then please do so because there isnt lways a secend chance for love
2006-11-27 11:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by sweethunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not bad... but look around as u may find someone who luvs u more...
2006-11-27 11:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is, it depends how much you love him.
2006-11-27 11:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by Grand Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is . why don't you look for someone else
2006-11-27 11:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by ||BOOTyMEAT|| 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋