My friend is single and she's says looking for a man with all these specific qualities, when in actuallity, she just described me to a T. All her previous boyfriends were losers or boring. I try and drop hints to her, but she never picks up on it. Some women say that won't do it because they just want to be friends, but I think they're just scared to take a chance (although it's really not that much of a chance). If women were to dump their loser boyfriends and go after their male bestfriend, I think they'd be much happier. Hey it works in all the movies.
2006-11-27 02:54:56 · 16 answers · asked by TheHeftyLefty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she is just afraid of what your reaction would be. Maybe instead of hinting you should just come out and say what you feel. It sounds like maybe you are both hinting to one another but neither one is stepping up to the plate. Even if she doesn't see you as botfriend material right now she might later if she knows the opportunity is there.
2006-11-27 02:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but the thing is we girls are afraid of losing you if it does go wrong and sometimes that he a risk we are not willing to take. This is because if things don't work out not only do we lose a boyfriend, but we also lose a very good friend and we might also lose other friends as well. Also having a guy friend is great because you will always tell us the truth and give us the guy's view of things and due to that we love you for it and that just something that we hold in high value and we don't want to be without it
2006-11-27 11:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that part of it is that they don't want to lose the friendship if the relationship doesn't work out. I have a male best friend and even though I like hanging out with him, I am not physically attracted to him. We just don't have that type of chemistry.
If you would really like to date her I would just come out and ask her. Maybe because you guys are friends she just didn't consider you for the part or maybe she doesn't know that you are interested in her in that way. Go for it and ask her. If you have a good relationship, you have nothing to lose.
2006-11-27 11:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I don't know if you saw my question about my best friend a guy always saying that "I'm the most beautiful woman in the world". Anyway, we were friends for years and now I am gonna say something sweet back. I know he likes me, in fact I think over the years he has fallen inlove with me. Give her a nudge somehow. But make sure the time is right.
2006-11-27 11:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman does not want to date their best friend because she scared that when they breakup their friendship will fail but if she willing to take the chance go for it but remember you have to deal with the consequences. If the both of you are willing to give it a shout then maybe it would be a great decision.
2006-11-27 11:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm sorry to say that but dating your male best friend isn't always the best idea. Want to know why? Because if you break up, and then want to go back to being friends again, it will be VERY awkward. Also, many women tend to have guy friends who are gay. So yea, not always the best idea, unless you feel it will work out.
2006-11-27 11:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because if it doesn't work out they may feel weird around you then it will go from best friends to not friends or maybe she is just scared
And movies are just movies it fake
2006-11-27 11:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Geena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this guy friend named *frank* who has liked me and all throughout school we were inseperable friends we went everywhere together but than when i found out that he wanted to be more than friends we sorta faded as friends, because i would have dated him but i was afraid that it would empact our friendship if we broke it off, and i wasnt ready to end our friendship. so we remaind friends and we still are friends to this day we just arent as close because i dont want to "pour salt into a wound" if you get what iam sayin. But good luck!
2006-11-27 11:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by pitbull luver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha. Let me tell you something dude. Movies are just fantasy.. Do you believe in cars that go back in time? then why do you believe you re end up having something with your female friend?. She just Friended you, its going to be very hard for you to get her to see you in a different way. You re just Mr. Nice guy to her, someone to trust, not someone she's attracted to.
2006-11-27 11:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people after they have dated cant remain friends, and I wouldn't want to lose a good friend.
2006-11-27 11:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋