when my boyfriend was on punishment i spent most of my idle time (time i usually spent with my boyfriend) with his brother (my sister's boyfriend). we really didn't talk about much, but then one day he asked me if he wasn't with my sister and i wasn't with his brother would i ever get with him. then i thought about it and realized my feelings for him. i didn't say anything about the feelings until he confessed his true feelings for me. then my boyfriend asked me if i was attracted to his brother and i said yes. and he got mad and almost ended it between us. so then i told him that we'd stop talking but that wasn't true. we talk everyday and all night.
2006-11-27 02:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to break up with your boyfriend...you are not being fair to him. And uinless you never want to speak to your sister again I'd lose the brother too!
2006-11-27 02:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her!! Even if he isn't, tell her anyway. It will stir some sh1t!! And at the same time tell him she has been having a relationship with the dog!! This could go on forever. I'm going to do that this weekend!! I'm going to tell everyone first then tell the person in question!! How to win friends and influence people!! If you did make this up, you have a really sick mind, which I think is very cool. I am going to look up your other questions. Marquis De Sade, watch out, your job is on the line!!! I did enjoy 120 of Sodom. You should read it, You might get some more ideas!!
2016-05-23 09:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you just need a little attention huh? You'd think that your relationship with your sister was more important than any boy. There's too many guys out there for you to have just realized you have feeling for your sister's boyfriend. If your own boyfriend wasn't on punishment and was giving you the attention you so desparately crave then this realization wouldn't have even came into play. Your selfish not only are you creating problems between you and your sister but your boyfriends are brothers too! But I guess in your world it doesn't matter as long as you have everyone's undivided attention...
2006-11-27 03:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by mentalchallenge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop the madness. Have some level of respect for yourself. How do you know these brothers aint playin yall? One could have said to the other I can get your woman and the other could have said go ahead and her you are lowering yourself in the name of love to such levels. Under no circumstances do you seek a relationship with a man or woman that was serous with your sister or brother. Please do the right thing.
2006-11-27 03:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you were honest in the beginning. It really spins around to how the relationship is with your sister. Are they really serious? If he had came out and told you how he felt about you, you really need to speak your mind to this guy and tell him that there should be no talk about future endevors with your sister because of his real feelings. We all need to stop playing with each other before some one really gets hurt.
2006-11-27 02:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your deal? Yes it is wrong. If you can't escape these feelings then don't be around him anymore. I think you should tell because your sister has the right to know what she is about to get herself into. Sure she will be hurt but it isn't fair for her not to know she is going to spend the rest of her life with this man, at least give her the courtesy to know what she is getting into.
2006-11-27 02:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you 've told your b/f you will have to tell your sister.Hey at least you are going to learn the consequences of your choices early in your life.Lying is never good and alot of noise will come from this but hey live and learn,stop lying,no one should cause you to be a liar.
2006-11-27 02:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him alone before you cause a big family fued. Oh but you should tell your sister because would'nt you want her to tell you if your boyfriend hit on her.
2006-11-27 02:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious..please tell me you are joking..what would cause you to like his brother..your sisters boyfriend..come on have some selfrespect here..there are so many other guys out there for you to just settle for his brother..I have no advice for you..but to stop whatever you are doing its.. WRONG
2006-11-27 02:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do cherish your relationship with your sister then you need to be straight with your sister's boyfriend. You have known your sister longer than you have known her boyfriend. And who said that if he did it to her he won't do it to you? You need to be honest with yourself...and your sister. Save yourself and save her (your sister) from a man who will break her heart.
2006-11-27 02:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by asake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋