5 mos. ago I started messing around with a guy who said he didn't want a relationship. Now that he realizes I'm ready to walk because I'm tired of just messing around he's admitting that we have some kind of relationship because we've become so close and he asked me to wait because he would be a good man to me soon. The thing is a friend called me to tell me that he went home with some skank he met at the club at 4 in the morning and sure enough my friend knew the girl and they had sex. Not to mention he's given me an STD. How do I tell him about the STD and tell him that I know he slept with some skank he met at the club and ask him if she was just a one night stand or not because typically he's not my man yet or should I take him saying that we are in some kind of relationship as him saying that he is my man? Serious advice needed please!!
2006-11-27 02:46:46 · 6 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that your story says something about you character.()
2006-11-27 02:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it OK with you if it was just a one night stand? This jerk gave you an STD! Girl, I would kick him to the curb so fast his head would spin. He sounds like a total and complete LOSER!!! Get rid of him and find you a decent man. You deserve better than that. If he already has cheated on you he WILL do it again. It just shows you how he has no respect and he apparently also has very low standards to be out sleeping with skanks.
2006-11-27 10:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this be a lesson to you. Every time you have unprotected sex and act like a skank yourself, God kills an innocent puppy. Do you want that on your conscience?
I love how you referred to the other girl as a skank... Classic!
"Mr. Kettle? Yeah, that was Mr. Pot on the phone... he say's you're black."
2006-11-27 10:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Stretchy McSlapNuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him and tell him he is trash and that he gave you an STD and he should go get tested. Don't get into a big discussion about the other girl just drop him and tell him to go get tested before he spreads his nastiness. You should also avoid players like him in the future for your own health sake.
2006-11-27 10:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well now that you have a disease that he gave you its kinda pointless to leave him now...if he says that hes gonna be ur man now..thats good...cause you bout got it..ya might as well stay together...as for the skank in the bar..find out who she is and hit her....i would..
2006-11-27 10:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by nawti969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on he isn't ready to do any thing but have fun.
2006-11-27 10:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋