im a gurl who might give it away 2 my boyfriend we`ve been tigether for a month and 2 weeks he said i cant get pregnet? what sould i do
2006-11-27 02:45:41 · 15 answers · asked by shelby 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Wait until you are married.
2006-11-27 02:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that this boy doesn't respect you very much. If all he is thinking about is sex and putting un needed pressure on you then he is totally not worth it. Being together for a month doesnt mean much. If he figures that being together for a month paves his way for getting laid because he has put in the "man hours", you should tell him he is dead wrong. Have sex when YOU are ready not when your hormonal boyfriend gets a woody. And if you do decide to do it, have some kind of protection for yourself and the bf. If he insists that he wants to feel things au natural WALK AWAY!!! I trust you will make the right decision. Be careful!
2006-11-27 10:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't listen to him. If you have had a period, ever, you CAN get pregnant. You didn't say how old you are, but you sound pretty young. I lost my virginity at 13 and have regretted it ever since (I'm 26 now). You two havn't been together very long and if he's pressuring you for sex that's all he wants from you. Please, respect yourself enough to make him respect you. If he wants to leave because you won't put out, he doesn't love you anyway. Talk to an adult about this, anyone you trust. And do yourself and your future a HUGE favor and if you decide to sleep with anyone, get on birth control. You CAN get pregnant, even on the first time.
2006-11-27 10:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you are here at Yahoo Answers asking perfect strangers to help you make this increidibly intimate personal decision shows me that you are not ready to take this step. Otherwise you wouldn't be looking for an "ok".
You CAN get pregnant, but I think you already know that.
If he says he won't wait for you or date you without sex than he isn't worth being with anyway!
2006-11-27 10:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by wyllow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of sex alot. But at the same time, I respect my girlfriend if she wasnt in the mood. Do what you think is right. You have only been with him for a month, and having sex. Dont rush it. If that is all he knows and thinks, then that is why he is with you. He has to earn your area and love. One month doesnt cut it unless you have a ring on your finger. Use protection or the pill. But always be safe!
2006-11-27 10:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER NEVER believe a boy when he says you can't get pregnant. The only sure ways not to get pregnant is to have surgical sterilization or not have sex...nothing else is 100%.
If you have to ask what you should do, you are not ready. Never let a boy pressure you into having sex.
You only have the gift of your virginity to give once, make sure you are giving it to the right man. And make sure that you are 100% sure you are ready for that big step.
2006-11-27 10:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Shalvia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be in control of your body. Be informed. Don't let him give you the "info" .Seek professional, medical information before doing anything. If he can't respect your wanting to wait until you are certain and educated then he doesn't really care about you at all just his need to "get off". Don't be used! You are worth so much more and you deserve so much more out of a boyfriend.
2006-11-27 10:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by puglove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you you cant get pregnant if you have sex with him, honey open your eyes and wake up he is going to tell you all you want to here to get in your pants and then probably dump you like a hot potato. Yes you can get very pregnant and it takes on time. Why dont you save it for someone who will respect you and love you instead of someone who is going to tell you lies just to get a peice
2006-11-27 10:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he meant that you won't get pregnant by having sex with him, he's lying to you. Guys do that sometimes to get sex.
If he means that he doesn't want you to get pregnant because it would mess up his life, he's right. He's also self-centered.
Either way, you should think about waiting. You sound like you're too young to be considering this.
2006-11-27 10:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE said YOU cannot get pregnant? There is something wrong with this statement.
Sex is amazing, but please wait until you know how to use birth control properly, and are ready to deal with either an unwanted pregnancy or an abortion. Until then, keep your pants on.
2006-11-27 14:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think long and hard about this ok do you want to have a baby? and do you want your boyfriend making decisions for you? first of all it aint your boyfriends decision if you can or cannot get pregnant it aint his anatomy and besides he could be a bad and horrible father to your child if you do decide to keep the baby. its your decision and dont let your boyfriend run your life.
2006-11-27 14:10:29 · answer #11 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋