He doesn't seem to mind at all but I am still not sure whether it is going to work out...
2006-11-27 02:11:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To hell with age.()
2006-11-27 02:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you haven't really supplied enough information for a very specific answer....it really depends on how old you both are. If you're 12 and 15, then it's kind of a problem, you're in really different places (like, he's still a little kid). If you're 16 and 19, perhaps there will be a bit of a maturity problem, namely because he's still in high school and you're out of high school. Especially since men mature much slower than women do, which usually creates better relationships between younger girls and older boys, in the case of high-school and college age people. However, if you're 23 and 26, or 30 and 33, then it doesn't make the slightest bit of difference.
Really, it all depends on your station in life, his station in life, and how close those stations are to one another. If you feel you are in a much different place than him, then chances are at some point you will drift apart or have irreconcileable differences. HOWEVER....no two relationships are ever alike, and yours could be something different altogether. Either way, enjoy it as long as it makes you happy. Good luck!
2006-11-27 02:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
AAbsolutely no problem. I can tell this from my personal experience. My wife was four years older than me and it was not a love marriage at all but just an orthodox one. Of course people around us made sarcastic remarks but as I like the girl I ignored all such comments. Even my wife had some misgivings. To bring her out I asked her,"Just don't act as a senior and wiser out to find faulit with the inexperienced me and give me doses of advice taking advantage of your seniority. Rest would be OK. It had been O.K.Somebody pushed it into her head that women aged earlier and therefore she would be an old hag while I would be a strapping young lad and then there may be problem. I dissuaded her from becoming nervour on this account and solemnly promises her that I woud love her in the words of the famous Hindi songs,'even if she were to be an old had of 60s and I was under sixty--June 55. We had no problem at least no problem on account of our reserve difference in ages.On t he other hand child-brides need a longer time to adjust to the changed way of life after marriage.Sometimes mere declaration of I love you is not adequate for meeting some situations.A senior wife is an asset on such occasions.
2006-11-27 02:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of where you are in life. See, if you're done with college, for example, and he is not...you may have a hard time having to settle down just to wait for him if your plan was to travel all over the world.
Little technicalities can get on the way.
Age isn't an issue. It's the position in life in which you both are at.
And finances play a major role in it too.
The only question is: could you do better? Are you better off without him, even if it would be painful for the moment.
2006-11-27 02:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mario E 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're both legal, it's shouldn't be an issue. I dated someone 6 years older than me and we had lots of fun. Age is a number. Worry more about the maturity level. Women mature much faster than men, so make sure you guys are pretty close in that regard, otherwise you'll get tired of him pretty quickly.
2006-11-27 02:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by tipper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it shouldnt be a problem,,, unless U think its a problem. Dont worry about what other people think. Women date younger men ALL the time and vis versa. If ur happy then all is good. If there's a maturity factor then thats different.
-ash
2006-11-27 02:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ash420Granito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
should you marry, the age difference won't make a difference. but since you have doubts now, you may as well break up and start anew with someone older.
Older women prefer younger men and you often see a older man with a wife twenty or more years younger than he.
Confusion always said the best sex is with someone half your age plus seven years.
2006-11-27 02:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think its a problem dear in relationships like this only amount of affection matters not the age. If u thnk he's gud 4 u and only u then dnt thnk of sych things be happy all the best
2006-11-27 02:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how old you are now. If you're 12 and he's 9 that would be wrong. 19 and 16 wrong. If you're 23 and he's 20 no big deal and so on.
2006-11-27 02:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 16? That might be a problem. If you are 30 its not an issue.
2006-11-27 02:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age is a state of mind and it only matters if you make it so. My sister's husband is four years younger and they have been married over 30 years. One of my daughters has a husband five years younger and their twin sons turned one year old on thanksgiving day. Don't bother trying to please the world; just please yourself.
2006-11-27 02:15:50 · answer #11 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋