does he really love me and is he beening honest like he says he is
2006-11-27 01:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by michelle m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way for us to know that.
2006-11-27 01:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you, and he may not be cheating on you. And he may be a liar and a cheat who wants to hold on to you until he finds something better. You can only trust him as much as you trust yourself to be able to deal with whatever he does. If things are feeling different between you, and it's not just the distance, listen to your instincts. Don't wait around until he confesses or you discover something. Live the life you want, because while you sit around racking your brains over what he's doing, I can guarantee he is not staying home worrying about you. People hook up on the college scene SO MUCH, it seems pretty unlikely that he isn't at least flirting with other girls. And his fellow college boys are definitely not encouraging him to be faithful, unless he's in Bible college. It may hurt now to move on, but it's only going to hurt more if you waste your high school years, or young adult years being true to a guy who isn't doing the same for you. You could miss out on a really great relationship because your holding on to something that just isn't right anymore. Good luck, and I wish you all the best in the future, with or without this guy.
2006-11-27 09:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people who go off to college love to experiment with the opposite or same sex. And when they are in a relationship with someone and that person isnt there that much they tend to go to someone else for comfort. Ask him if he is seeing anyone else, cause no matter how much a person will love you, temptation will get the best of them.
2006-11-27 09:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until he gives you a reason to believe otherwise then you have to trust him. Im talking solid evidence here, not just a hunch or feeling. Long distance relationships are difficult enough, remove trust and its over. Good luck
2006-11-27 09:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
and youre what...16? Hes having a ball.
2006-11-27 09:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he would be cheating???
If you are that paranoid or untrustful, then split from him...
2006-11-27 09:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, probly...because the booty in college is irrisitable,
2006-11-27 09:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by ace_112121 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are websites where you can buy his cell phone records. see who he's calling regularly.
2006-11-27 09:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is cheating on you...they all do.
2006-11-27 09:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋