We have been "just good friends" for 6 months but have known each other for 6 yrs. The attraction is DEFINATELY there. However e both divorced last yr so have taken things very slowly, agreeing that we need a friend more than relationship at the mo. This friendship was phonecalls/texts only until 3 wks ago when I became extremly ill, he visited me lots,brought flowers, cards, even rang my mum every day to find out how I was. I played it sool as I didn't want to scare him off. Last night we texted about ice skating. It went like this. Me"I'd love 2 go will you come with me?I don't mind looking a fool in front of you" him, " Mini skirts r good for beginners" Me,"U cheeky sod! Is that a yes?" Him, "Yes and I can cook!" Me, " Ok gr8! When?" Now I've heard NOTHING!! I don't want to pester him, I'm waiting for reply, but until I get one, I'd like to have an insight into what he's thinking!! help please!
2006-11-27 00:42:56 · 2 answers · asked by flumoxed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is clearly that he likes you!!! but it is also clear that he feels exactly the same way you feel, with the divorce and everything, he probably is thinking that he is going to fast for you. I recomend you take it slow as well and if he has not answer text him something related to another subject something like "I´m glad I got rid of that illness, so I can enjoy life" and he will answer and take it from there and he will bring up the date he never said when..
good luck!!!
2006-11-27 00:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ariel F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he wants to go out --- so give him a time and place and see what happens --- he may just be scared even though you get on so well
2006-11-27 08:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋