mY boyfriend thinks I seriously, critically need a diet. I mean, do I really have to?
I'm 16 years old, mY stat is 34-25-34.......
sO do I need a diet? what do you guys think? am I fat? I think I'm not.. It's bothering me not because someone just called me chubby, but it hurts to know your guy cannot accept you for who you really are, fat or skinny! what do you guys think about my guy? Do you agree I have to follow this diet? (what a nightmare!! life without food!!)
some advice please.....
2006-11-27 00:25:26 · 14 answers · asked by kia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him! You don’t need that crap… if he is not one hundred percent crazy about you the way you are then he is not worth your time. If he wants you any other way than you are then he doesn’t truly want you. he just thinks that he is better than you and you cant get any one better than him so you will do what he wants you to do… this guy is not the one for you. you are too good for him and you need be with someone wants only to make you happy… if you stay with this guy he will only hurt you time and time again until you cant feel anymore. If you like yourself and have no problem with the way you look, forget about any jerk that thinks you have to change just to suit his sorry selfish ***!
2006-11-27 00:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sad jester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i dont know what those stats mean, so i cant really say if u need to diet or not. but in any case, try and follow a healthy diet and get enough exercise regardless. as to ur guy, well i'm sure it does hurt to have him think ur fat. even more that he cant accept u for who u are. if all he cares about is appearance, what's to stop him from going after another girl he thinks is more attractive than u are? it should be about who u are, not what u look like especially when its ur boyfriend. he's the person who should be most supportive and encouraging of u, not putting u down. imho, i say u shold maybe think of getting rid of him. i'm sure it wont be easy but unless he's willing to change and accept u as u are his relationship will almost certainly fail. and i'm betting this isnt what u want to hear, but maybe its something u should keep in mind...
2006-11-27 00:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 you shouldn't have to worry about what some guy think about your apperance... 34-25-34 is a great size... tell him take it or leave it.
2006-11-27 00:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by babie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What matters is how you feel about yourself. People come in different shapes and sizes, just be confident in yourself. As for the guy be careful with him, sounds like he may be the insecure controlling type. I would never tell a woman she should diet. If I was concerned about the healthiness of eating habits I'd probably try to get her to come workout with me or something like that. I would certainly never suggest she do anything I wasn't willing to do with her. As long as you are in good health and getting plenty of exercise you shouldn't worry about your weight.
2006-11-27 00:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by tiqcy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, and young girls naturally have more body fat. I do not prefer those covergirls models who are walking skeletons. As long as you are shaped like a girl is supposed to be shaped. Those measurements are pretty valuptuous for 16 sweetheart. Regardless, a diet is your decision, it should not be an ultimatum from ur b/f.
2006-11-27 00:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely before each and every thing, do not enable this guy administration your existence. What i advise is, do not enable him distract you. in case you want him you ought to tell him climate or not he has a gurl already. And if he likes you tell him he extra powerful make a call from you and the different gurl. If he chooses her then skrew him. Now if he thinks you loopy for askin contained in the first position, do not sweat it. There are over 10 million adult men in this us of a.
2016-11-27 01:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by watkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are beautiful the way you are, don't let anyone tell you otherwise, you might get insecure and develop a complex that isn't warranted, your guy sounds like he wants a pin-up gal from a magazine. Tel him to go have a relationship with a picture
2006-11-27 00:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by atantatlantis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the boyfriend. The loser. You have the same measurements to me, and there is no way that i am overweight. If u ask me, which u kinda did, you already know that this guy is an idiot. Lose him, and find yourself a real man. Trust me. There are good ones out there, who dont need to control your body image to control you.
2006-11-27 00:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like 34DD-25-34 best. No you are not fat. I'll marry you tomorrow morning.
2006-11-27 00:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it never hurts to have some meat u don't want to be toothpick skinny and if ur boyfriend says that than he doesn't appreciate u
2006-11-27 00:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋