I love a teenage boy 18+ very much. He also loves me very much.Our relation was 11th month.Suddenly in the begining of this month he broke up with me without any reason.If i ask him the reason he keeps silent about it. If i force him then he insults me .I love him very much i cant tolerate it any more i want him back.I had tried heart and soul about it. Now i need your help to make him return .Plz help me.I have decided after this try if he doesnt return then i will sucuide..i know it is not the solution.
p.s . we didnt have any physical ralation.
2006-11-26 23:57:38 · 16 answers · asked by Blue flower 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked his close friend none know the reason.i did many thing for him.i didnt cheat .i did what he said to me.It is not that i fell in love with him for the first time.It is he who convinced me and forcefully ending the relation.I cant forget this thing.now it is one month.I challenged him love has power love will bring you back.
2006-11-27 00:17:16 · update #1
Blue Flower - No MAN or WOMAN is worth the thoughts of suicide. If he won't talk to you about why he ended it, then it wouldn't make for the best long lasting relationship anyway. You need to pick yourself up, and move on. The right person will come along. You won't find the right person if you are acting in desperate ways to get someone back. You really need to think about wether you love him as much as you say you do, or if you are just used to this person and afraid to go out and meet others. Its hard for me to believe that you could love someone that much if he is insulting to you. YOU deserve better than to be insulted. I am relieved to hear that you have not had a physical relationship with this person, save that for someone who will appreciate you and not insult you. Theres an old saying " If you love something, set it free, if it comes back to you, its your's, if it doesn't, it never was. " Give it some time. Maybe it is meant to be, and he hasn't realized it yet. Let him have some time without you and see if he misses you as much as you miss him. But don't let him come back to you if he is that insulting. Suicide - well lets just say you will never know if you two just needed a break from each other. If you love him as much as you say you do, would you really want to take your own life and make hime miserable for the rest of his because of your actions? Thats not love, its desperation. You are young it sounds like to me. You will probably have a few heartaches along the way. Look at them as lessons learned and experience gained for the person that you will spend the rest of your life with. Good luck, stay strong. If you are still feeling suicidal, you need to talk to a girlfriend, or parent, just TALK to someone, let them help you.
2006-11-27 00:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety committing suicide is not the solution. There are plenty of boys who will find you just as beautiful as he found you. Maybe you should try talking to your pastor if you have one or your counselor at school if you have problems talking with your mom, a sibling or family member. It is possible he wanted to have sex and you didn't but it's not always the reason neither. You should put your feelings down on paper rather than talk to him if he's insulting you. You touched my heart this morning I just had death in my family and I hope you don't put your loved ones through such a horrible tragedy. Honey think about this long and hard and be strong. Be Blessed!!!!
2006-11-27 00:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by monie42003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide, is truly not the answer, You would get his attention all right, but once you have it, you wouldn't be able to do anything about it. So just stop trying to get the whys out of him. He is just being a jerk and very mean. You don't need that.
You are young and will go though lots of guys. Right now you need to love yourself and know that you have a lot to offer the world. Focus on doing something for you. You will find a guy who is caring and loving just like you. Have faith and believe in yourself
2006-11-27 00:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not telling you because he knows you are unstable. You can't force anyone to love you, stay with you or come back to you.
You just need to accept it and move on. You are both very young, you'll have a lot of different boyfriends before you get married. It seems like the end of the world with the first break up, but it's not. You will get over it and meet someone else.
2006-11-27 00:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone come back if they don't want to. And there's no point killing yourself over him - would he for you? I think not!
I think you have to realise that maybe this relationship is over, for whatever reason it is. He obviously doesn't want to be in a relationship, otherwise you would be! Do you think there is another person involved? Maybe? I wouldn't pester him about whats wrong, it's obvious it's over. I know you are heart broken but the best thing you can do is to put this behind you, it will get easier as time goes on, I promise.
As my mother used to say: If you love something set it free.
If it comes back, it was meant to be.
good luck!
2006-11-27 00:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno what had happened between u two..but u need to cool down 1st.. u can ask his friends abt his thoughts..coz he may faced some problems but he didn't want to make u feeling pressure.. tell him that silence can solve problem..there must be something happened.. let both of u have a nice talk..the other way u can do is to write him a letter or e-mail him..ask him what had happened..tell him that u care abt him so much n will be at his side no matter what had happened..tell him ur feeling from the bottom of ur heart.. let him know that u need an explanation.. of course,u need to give him some time to think abt coz he may dunno how to answer u or he has his own problem.. anyway, wish u luck~~~ n pls respect ur own life too...
2006-11-27 00:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely_Pearl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pal, You published the question under R & S India. Religiously , as according to Bhagavat Geeta 4 kinds of persons bypass to God and BEG(Pray for their desires) they're; arthee, Artharthee, Gnaanee and Jignaasu. So human beings bypass to temple and Pray for (BEG GOD0 for their desires, it could desire to be money or well-being or wealth or Gnaanam) despite a devotee does in front of GOD isn't BEGGING in any respect. asking guardian for some money or some factor isn't BEGGING. God IS the two mothers and fathers. So despite you ask HIM isn't BEGGING in spite of the undeniable fact that IT sounds like BEGGING.
2016-12-29 13:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
threaten suicide is not the way to get anyone back. you are young, you have your whole life ahead of you. I know that you love this guy but he doesn't love you. Why be with a guy that doesn't love you when you can be with one that does?Why throw your life away for someone that doesn't see all the great qualities you have? For a loser? Honey. he is not good enough for YOU. He will not feel bad if you kill yourself. He will make fun of you for being a loser who lost.Experience what love really is.With someone who loves you back. As hard as it is he never loved you and never did. If he did then he wouldn't hurt you the way he is now.The best way to get him back is to be in a healthy happy relationship with someone else.
2006-11-27 00:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure about this one - I think maybe he has some problem with you - maybe something you did or said that has offended him - of course you may not know what this was.
If he loves you then leave him alone for a while - he will try to have it out with you if he cares enough.
PS Don't try suicide - call the samaritans if you get to desparate you will feel better after talking to them.
2006-11-27 00:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by MB42 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just plum silly/stupid to even think about what you are thinking about. Seems to me, he has problems of his own to work out. Perhaps you should go see a counselor or something along those lines. Maybe you could even get him to go, maybe you could have someone else talk to him about it. Maybe he felt he was "to commited" for being only 18. I would say the both of you need to talk to someone...just remember no guy is worth doing "that" to yourself. Please seek help in your area, or tell your family about your thoughts. That is not safe. Keep yourself busy...go to a movie, or go shopping with your friends and family.
2006-11-27 00:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by buckeyefever7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋