my birthday is on 12/6, its my 21th birthday.. i want to celebrate that day with my girl.. my parents are planning to celebrate it with catering and lots more.. but my dad seems do not like my girlfriend.. so he (my dad) told me that my girl are not allowed to go with me on my birthday on our house.. but deep inside my heart tells me that i wont be happy if my girl is not beside me that day..
what should i do or say?..
my dad is in abroad and he will not go home on my birthday.. im planning to invite my girl even my parents and my dad get mad at me.. or ill say to my girl that ill celebrate my birthday with her on other day?..
i need your help.. i dont know what should i do.. im so frustrate...
2006-11-26 23:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by tamiyaboy_ph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rite mate my parents are exactly the same they tried to stop her coming to my 18th and i basically said shes coming so get stuffed and if they dnt like it and say they are going to cancel everything just say that you want you bday to be with her because its important to you and if they dnt like it they are the ones with the problem mate!!!! and they'll regret not being supportive afterwards so you cant lose!
2006-11-27 00:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your in a tough spot! I guess if you have a mutual relationship with this girl then she would understand if you explain your current situation it might be tough but if she loves you then she will try and work something out. If your really brave talk to your parents explian how you feel and tell them that you wish that they would give her a chance and tell them why you feel so strongly on about this girl (no details just facts) Parents can be understanding and then maybe they will let you prove that your girl is a good person if it doesn't work then just keep trying they will obviously have to break down and give in too your request sometime!
2006-11-27 08:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your girlfriend... So do what you really wanna do.. If you think that you are happy with her so be with her.. It does'n not even matters what your parents feel about her.. It's a question of time.. And just let them know about it.. Good luck!
2006-11-27 08:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Becka L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let them know how you really feel and if they cared that they wouldnt try and make you choose who to spend an important day like that with. If i were you and they didn't care about how you felt after that I would say screw them and spend it with your girl.
2006-11-27 08:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one well tell your parents that your girlfriend makes u happy and that u wont be if she is not there and that u are an adult and make your own decision
2006-11-27 08:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your dad know that you will go with her and if he don't like it you will go to celebrate with her alone good luck to the both of you. and happy b/day
2006-11-27 08:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm pretty frustrated, too. I'm sure some of the others who read this, feel the same way.
2006-11-27 08:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by TheOneVersion3.0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your dad and your girlfriend are having an affair. you should confront him... consider *****-slapping him in front of the whole gathering... that would be a birthday to remember allrighty!
2006-11-27 07:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to ask euur parent nicely...maybe euu could celebrate wif her be4 ur birthdae and told her sorry as euu hqve something on,on tat dae...:)
2006-11-27 08:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by CuRiOuS bOuT jOb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tat sounds like a frustrate situaton. try telin ur dad 2 step of, its ur life, ur an adult now! u make ur own desicons!!
2006-11-27 08:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋