i hate to lose any of them..
2006-11-26 23:45:35 · 11 answers · asked by gracie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is your best friend then he would respect who your with and still love you as a friend regardless. If your heart is leaning towards your new boyfriend, it would be wrong to leave him just to keep a friendship with your best friend. If you really like the best friend then go with him, but you need to know in your heart that it's the one your really in-love with yourself. Go with your heart and your gut on this one. I think you already know who you have stronger feelings for so go with that person. A real man would respect your wishes and move on. Make a decision and stick by it.
2006-11-26 23:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to chose? You said that your best friend is IN LOVE with you also. Does that mean that he/she wants to date you or is this strictly platonic best friend kind of love? Some ppl are thinking that you are asking if you should choose a friend over a boyfriend. That's not how I read it though. Maybe I'm weird(: If you can't decide, they should be understanding and let you date them both until it can be resolved somehow. If it can't be resolved, um...why not all 3 of you? Have you considered that? It works out for some ppl. If it is really love, the one you should be with will be revealed to you.
2006-11-26 23:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by poppywest1223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like most? If you like your b/f then you have to choose him but if you like your bestfriend then you should choose your bestfriend. You can't have them both unfortunatley yes in your case you have to loose one them. But you always can talk to him, I don't think that you are going to argue with any of them.
On the other hand if you choose one of them and you still find yourself guilty of your choice, then you should leave them as friends and find a new b/f. In that case you will not give the preference to anyone of them and nobody will be hurt.
2006-11-26 23:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly your boyfriend is of 4 months, your BEST FRIEND is of SIX YEARS. Boyfriends come and go but friends last forever. You never know how much longer your boyfriend is going to be around but your best friend has already been there for a long time I think they're in it for the long haul! But stick with your heart and do what you think is good for you. Good Luck!
2006-11-26 23:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is serious
firstly,i would ask why didnt ur bestfriend ask u out b4 ur boyfriend cuz u ve known him for 6 yrs...........
well u have different options ,it depends on how u feel about ur friend i was just thinkin he might not truely love u
maybe he is just abit jealous .......u no not havin u around all the time like b4
or maybe he truly loves u but didnt know how to ask u until he found out that some1 else was goin to get u....
well follow ur herat think twice
ur friend will always be ur friend if he is truly ur friend.....
2006-11-27 00:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by slimcutsy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have a bf currently there isn't much you can do about the bestfriend.. unless your willing to break up with your bf for him..
don't lead anyone on.. listen to yourself and i'm sure you know the answer
2006-11-26 23:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your best frind was really your best friend he would not have put you in this position. If you are happy with your boyfriend your best friend will understand and just get over it.
2006-11-26 23:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose your friend guys are around all the planet but friends arent
2006-11-26 23:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by thegirl1992nextdoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun choose both of them, lyk tat euu could keep the frenship wif them,...
2006-11-26 23:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by CuRiOuS bOuT jOb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart ,stay with the one you really love...and he really loves you back!!
2006-11-26 23:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋