How did you deal with it or are you still dealing?
2006-11-26 23:40:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We have to keep in mind that this world is a temporary place and every one, sooner or later, has to leave this world.
Moreover, for coming in this world, there is / can be a sequential flow ~ means son and daughter will follow their mom and dad.
But going out from this world there is no sequential flow, as small kid may die b4 his/her parents or brothers and sisters.
There fore, please think on these lines and try to control yourself. As no one can bring back the people who have left this temporary world.
GOD bless you with patience to bear the loss of your mom.
2006-11-27 00:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt lose my my mother young but i lost a sister to a brain tumor who had 3 young children...2 boys and a girl at the time aged 14,12 and 9 and it has been a rough road for them because their father also drank himself to death and what they went through was horrific.Now my niece is marrying and i can only imagine the thoughts going through her mind.I dont think you would ever forget as there are times of your life where a parent should be there and when they are taken there is that whole grief cycle of anger etc...My youngest nephew now has just bought a home and he is not yet 25 ,you wouldnt think 10 yrs ago he was living in a van with no running water etc. I guess it is how you channel what you have inside you wether you continue to hate the world for taking her or you put it all into making the person you can be and someone ppl including our mother admire. No matter what when we lose someone close we deal with it very individually and pretty much its coping skills, but we never forget and its normal to grieve. If you are having a really bad time with this see a counsellor just to help you get on your feet...You have a life to live and someone will be always watching over you.Best of luck i can only imagine what you are going through I lost my dad when i was 34
2006-11-27 09:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother died when I was 15 months old. I have dealt with that for 64 years. It's the one great heartbreak of my life.
2006-11-27 07:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually people wish they had the things they dont have and misuse or take advantage of the things they do have....
human nature is so predictable.....
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2006-11-27 07:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋