sometime i dont feel like i even exist because what they want is just my body noone really cares about the inside of me..do u think guys understands this?
i dont want people to like me because of the way i look instead i want them to like for who i am and the inside of me....
is it possible to meeet someone who really likes for who you are?
2006-11-26 23:38:46 · 30 answers · asked by chick on fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get discouraged. Guys are pretty visually based beings. Hell it is hard for Humans not to be. I mean if your in a club and a guy comes up to you and has on some nerdy outfit and is dog butt ugly are you going to take the time to get to know his personality? I doubt it. Now you take a guy seeing a hotty Asian girl WITH big boobs? That is what we see that makes us want to talk to you. But relax eventually one of the those guys will take the time to look up and realize you have a head. I guessing that you are kinda young and the guys at that age (ok all ages) are full of hormones. I am not saying that is ok the view women as objects, but I did marry a big boobed Japanese girl and eventually I realized she had more than a chest.
2006-11-26 23:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mike E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately most men think with the wrong head. It doesn't matter if you are smart, compassionate, giving, faithful, and so on. Most men will not get past your good looks. You will be a trophy from the start. That may be fine for a while, but that is not going to be a relationship that will survive. I would like to say I am sorry for you being so perfect in my mind, but I can't, I am a man. Asian women are hot to me. Keep on spreading the joy of your presents and use it to your advantage. One day it will diminish, but a true relationship will not. Keep looking!
2006-11-26 23:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't hate Asian guys in any respect, I feel you've got under no circumstances dated a Caucasian girl. When you consider that Caucasians feel Asian guys aren't even occupied with them so they don't bother. And so do Asian guys consider the identical manner and that is why they decide on to stick with their possess race considering they may be frightened of white women. White guys are simply hopelessly in love with Asian women. Considering the fact that they don't get divorced as ordinarily as white couples do and to white guys, Asian girls are extraordinary and attractive to them. And they are, to us white individuals. I know some white ladies who're obsessed with Asian guys however are too scared to talk to them on account that they could feel it can be "abnormal" for a white lady to be with an Asian man. So, that being said, yes, there is numerous white ladies inclined to date Asian guys.
2016-08-09 23:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
White guys find Asian girls VERY very beautiful. So it is hard for them to not want to see if you will go out with them. If you have nice large breast then they will tend to look at them often while speaking to you. As a guy myself I have to say that it is just a pleasure to look at attractive girls. That is just the nature of a man/guy.
Unfortunately, to many guys are shallow and are not interested in a relationship when they are young. Only a pleasurable experience.
I personally am not like that. Every man wants a beautiful girl to have and to hold by his side but it seems once a girl has had some great sex, they itch for it strongly for about seven years and one guy can not fullfill that all the time. Since the girl is beautiful she is constantly being asked for a date or something by the aggressive guys of which often get the girl and therefore dump her after he has had his fill. As a girl if you enjoy sex or do not seem to be able to get enough from your steady guy, you tend to go off and be a little slut because to often there are not enough ethics or self values instilled in you to keep you from being such a low quality girl. Hopefully, you are not one of them!
Anyway, if you want the kind of man who appreciates who you are you need to pursue the shy guy. The guy who does not always get the girl. This kind of guy is more apt to stay with you and appreciate YOU for who YOU are! I dream of a beautiful girl who will stay with me but none has done so yet. Like I said, All men/guys wish to have a beautiful girl on his side as he walks through life. It is totally a guy thing and an ego thing. He wants to be able to show her off to other guys saying to himself, look what I got! Not many guys will admit to this little secret but deep inside all men do this. I wish you the best in finding your true love.
2006-11-26 23:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by I made this! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look,youre admitting that you have big jugs and apparently the first thing that catches the guys attention is youre Breast. Unless he pays more attention to your face than the rest of your body so that means youre more attractive from the Face than you are from the rest of your body. If the Guy knows you more some time then apparently He wants to bang you(not to be rude) or he really likes you!
2006-11-26 23:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by koskesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible. And though there seem to be a lot of players running around these days, their are guys that are still old fashioned about these things. Personally, I think their getting scarce on both side of the fence. I suggest long relationships/friendships without sex. That will "weed out" most the players.
2006-11-26 23:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by aka white knight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you have a lot of interest you can pick and choose only the men who like you for who you are - maybe you should look at the men who maybe are not so good looking but are nice.
Remember this thing applies to both sexes.- Good luck tho ;)
2006-11-26 23:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by MB42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do no longer hate Asian men in any respect, i assume you have in no way dated a Caucasian female. because of the fact Caucasians think of Asian men are not even involved in them so they do no longer worry. And so do Asian men think of a similar way and for this reason they choose to stay with their very own race because of the fact they are petrified of white women human beings. White men are merely hopelessly in love with Asian women human beings. because of the fact they don't get divorced as usually as white couples do and to white men, Asian women are unique and eye-catching to them. and that they are, to us white human beings. i understand some white women who're smitten by Asian men yet are too scared to talk to them because of the fact they might think of it particularly is "unusual" for a white female to be with an Asian guy. So, that being suggested, confident, there's a large variety of white women prepared as much as now Asian men.
2016-10-04 10:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. However you sound as if you were blessed with gifts men find nice. Men are visual animals and as such like good looks. As we age we realize that good looks are great but personality is what you need. Date older guys and dress a bit more frumpy to not accentuate your bosom. Good luck
2006-11-26 23:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might have something to do with the boobs, although it might also have something to do with the fact that you are good looking and the guys want to be with you, but eventually the guy you choose will get to see the real you.
2006-11-26 23:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by liamcorinne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋