I'v efallen in love with and slept with someone i definately should not have done, but god i love him withg all my heart and now he doesnt want me and although he says he will never turn his back on me i know he regrets it.
my eart hurts like hell and i wan it to stop. please somebody help.
2006-11-26 22:11:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to move on with your life. Stop seeing him or talking to him AT ALL, even as a friend. Concentrate on other interests in your life, take up a hobbie, visit with your girlfriends and watch sad movies and cry. Time does heal all wounds. And after a few days of sulking and licking your wounds, go out with friends and have some fun. You will meet someone else, and then you'll wonder why you even hurt over this guy for a moment at all! Trust me, it will pass.
2006-11-26 22:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by yessiamcute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find something else to focus on. First calm down, breath slowly and be still. If you put all your savings on a horse and it lost you would be broke. The lesson is never invest all your heart into anyone unless you are sure they feel the same way. You backed a loser, pick a winner next time. You sound too young to be sleeping with some guy anyhow. Invest your energy and heart in yourself and have some more self respect, your acting like this guy is everything, when he is not, he is just a human being no better than you OK.
2006-11-26 22:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by james l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you at the instant are not in a healthful place. you have been abused with the aid of your loved and you have somewhat everywhere to bypass. the final difficulty which you would be able to do is artwork on you. because of the fact of your history of abuse, i could see a counselor. this could assist you to understand that what you have been experiencing substitute into incorrect and unacceptable. you may desire to get out as much as you could and make some friends. a brilliant style of abused women have been very remoted. i'm not speaking approximately clubbing the two. Take some instructions. in case you have not have been given one, get a job. shop your self busy. Time will help the broken heart, yet attending to understand and love your self will shop it from being broken for the incorrect motives.
2016-10-13 04:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A broken relationship is more painful to a woman when sex has been involved. You must however realise that you cannot undo what has already happened. You must make up your mind to put that experience behind you. I can guess how you hurt but life has to continue. Confide in somebody - your mum? 'trusted' friend? pastor? Discussing it can ligten the burden. Most importantly, now that you have learnt from your own personal experience, dont allow it to happen to you again. There is virtue in the christian injuction that we refrain from pre-marital and extramarital sex. I recommend it to you.
2006-11-26 22:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by holybanky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot heal, just time and passions can. Take this part of your life as a lesson and try to make the best of it.... everything happens for a reason.... Don't be so sad... If you feel he is going to turn his back on you, go your own way, if he comes after you, you'll know he won't turn his back on you... Don't depend on his love to make you happy, get it yourself. Good Luck..
2006-11-26 22:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a break from him is the best thing you could do. Yeah, I know how much it hurts, but if he's let you down once he'll do it again. Trust me, I know. Hang out with some of your friends. Talk to the one friend that you trust the most. Let him know how you feel.
2006-11-26 22:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by tonja20770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a deep breath and remember that No Man is Worth the Salt in your Tears!
Good Luck!
2006-11-26 22:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by jessica g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him see what he is missing out on, be the best you can be and be happy, happy is always attractive.
Otherwise, keep yourself busy with close friends and avoid him.. Make this your rules, if it is too hard to be near him stay away, too bad if he is upset about that. Look after yourself
2006-11-26 22:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Belle* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
temporarily... eat sweet stuff.
chocolate ice cream helps!! really it does!
chocolate too!
cold beverages does too! but all this isn't a way to really heal that heart of yours.
this is the real thing...
find another guy who loves you as much as you love him.
all the best.
2006-11-26 22:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by smallorganic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hope you are a girl and i hope he was marry but it sound like he was marry so to heal your broken heart is to find somebody easy and go on with your life and four get him OK you soon get over him
2006-11-26 22:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋