my bf hits me....?

Question

and i get bruses but he says he does it cuz he loves me do u think he is serius?

Answer 1

that's messed up get out before it gets worse and it always does

Answer 2

You Should Never Allow Any Man To Hit You For Any Reason. And If He Truely Loves You Like He Saids Then He Would Never In His Life Hit You. Cause No Real Man Would Ever Hit A Woman. So The Next Time He Hits You Call The Police On Him & Then Kick Him To The Curb.. And As For You Stantan B You Are Just An Idiot To Even Say What You Said. Domestic Abuse Is No Laughing Matter.

Answer 3

Do I think he is serious about what? Let me ask you, Do you hit others causing bruising, because you love them. Most likely not and for the most part , most others do not either. Do you feel LOVED when he HITS you. NO,your scared and it hurts. He is in control, total Control and it makes you feel small, So why would you think that's its OK. ITS NOT.Ever!!!!
IF HE DOES IT AGAIN, CALL THE POLICE, MAKE A POLICE REPORT (if need be wait til he is gone then drive to the station a file a report) If you have brothers or your Dad is around, call them, tell them and that should help put an end to it. If not, then get way from this person. You deserve better than that. Get your self respect and dignity back, take control of your life.

Answer 4

Luv stinks but it doesn't cause bruises... He has started hitting you and it will never end, it will just get worse. Soon he will make you believe its all your fault and that you did something to cause his abuse. You looked at another person, your shirt is too revealing, you took to long to answer the phone, you didn't kiss him right, you feel different, you got a different job, you didn't like his Christmas gift, you didn't buy him one, you put garlic in the pasta, etc... Now listen, honey. He said he does it because he loves you. He only thinks he does. And you really want to be loved by him. He can be so sweet and charming, but so is the devil.

TELL SOMEONE NOW! You cant handle this one alone.

DONT LEAD HIM ON! Get away and stay away from him.

DONT TRUST HIM! He knows you are afraid of him.

LOVE YOURSELF! You deserve to be truly loved.

Answer 5

I have been in your position. Love does not include hitting. It only gets worse. Please get rid of him now. Don't think it will end because it won't. You do not need him! There is someone out there for you that will never hurt you like that. Get a restraining order (here in California they are free) and if he hurts you again call the police. Also make sure everyone you know family and friends know what he has done. Get people on your side. It helps. Good luck.

Answer 6

NO.
please think about it.
would you hurt anything or anyone you love?
he may like you, or maybe he even does love you,
but all he'll want in the end is control over you.
he doesnt see you as a girlfriend or as a person,
he sees you as an object he can break,
use, abuse, and toy with anytime he likes,
and he thinks you'll always be his toy.
the most important thing about the relationship is not him, or you,
its the RELATIONSHIP.
is the abuse and lies with your boyfriend really something you can see yourself sticking around for forever??
no??
then dont waste your time with it.
he only wants to take from you,
more than youre willing to give,
wouldnt you rather give what you have to offer to someone who's worth it??
to someone who asks, and gives you something in return??
if you decide yes, and you leave him
theres places you can go to,
abuse centers,
friends,
anyone who has been of some support in your life can help you through this,
if you just ask.
its a rough journey,
but trust me,
it was well worth it.

Answer 7

NO! Once a guy raises his hands, it's a huge sign to leave him ASAP. If he really loves you, he wouldnt have the heart to lay his hands on you. Keep in mind that things could get worse if you dont leave him soon. He may start hurting you Deeply, both physically and emotionally. If you dont wanna leave him, stand up for yourself and tell him enough is Enough. Never give him another chance to hit you!

Answer 8

He doesn't love you, he wishes to control you.

He seriously has a problem and so do you if you don't get out right now--TODAY!

He will not change, he will only get worse.

f you stay, then you are asking for all of the misery that he can and will bring to your life.

It doesn't matter if you grew up with that kind of thing or not.--It's wrong!

Men that hit women are cowardly p*ssies that would NEVER hit a man.

Don't be a fool.
Save yourself.
Love doesn't bruise.

Answer 9

HE IS MENTALLY PERVERTED!!!
I think your too deep in love with him. Wake up! He isn't loving you! He is hurting you!!! No one person would hurt the person they truly love. He just enjoys abusing you. Tell someone, anyone! If you do not dare to oppose, report it to the police. Break up with him and reasoned it out with him that if he doesn't stop hitting you, you'll call the police. DON'T ever change your mind and go back to him. Once trust is lost, it is dead and gone forever.
Break up with him.
all the best.

Answer 10

Honey, your boyfriend is full of ****. If he loved you then he wouldn't be hitting you. It doesn't matter if he is hitting you out of anger or whatever it might be. No one has the right to do that to another person. If he really loved you then he wouldn't want to inflict pain on his girlfriend. If you ever need to talk to someone, then I'm here for you.

Answer 11

I think he is in serious need of help. You should get out of that sort of relationship. NO man has the right to lay a finger on a woman regardless of the reason.