I'm an English man living in France. I have a girlfriend who I have asked to marry me 3 times in the past. Each time she's said "No" because she's not sure if she loves me that much. last month I won a share in the Euromillions lottery. When I say a "share", I mean it's still an amount that has transformed my life. I dont need to work ever again and can have pretty much anything I want. My girlfriend has said that she wants to marry me, in fact she dosn't stop saying it. I know she dosn't love me. What do I do. She has changed so much in the last month. I dont even know her anymore.
2006-11-26 21:24:18 · 15 answers · asked by Derek M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already know the answer...........DUMP HER!!!!
If she didn't want to marry u b4 u got rich, and now that u have money and she does want you then U KNOW SHE'S ONLY AFTER UR MONEY!!!
You sound like a nice guy...........SO DONT LET THAT GOLD-DIGGER OF A ***** NEAR YOU, MARRY YOU, OR HAVE ANY OF YOUR MONEY!!!!
I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEE france, where abouts you live?
Best of luck, bye
2006-11-26 21:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats on the winning.....sir, I think if you re read your question, your answer is right there....".Each time she's said "No" because she's not sure if she loves me that much......I dont need to work ever again and can have pretty much anything I want. My girlfriend has said that she wants to marry me, in fact she dosn't stop saying it. I know she dosn't love me.".........There is your answer.....there are 4.5 billion people on the planet....approach more women, don't tell them how much money you have, and you'll find a genuine gal that will just want YOU.....she's out there somewhere, you marry this gal?.....divorce = $$$......if she doesn't love you, then that's all she's marrying you for......
2006-11-27 05:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now what do you think? If she wasn't sure then but she is sure now why the sudden change of heart? You said it yourself. She doesn't love you. She loves the money. If you marry that gold digger you will end up broke and alone. So you better hang on to your good fortune or else you will end up getting hung. What do you do? Run fast in the opposite direction. You're walking on thin ice. If you marry her just see how fast your life is transformed. As in bankruptcy. Don't you get it? She doesn't love you!!! You are being used. Now you know so get real!!
2006-11-27 05:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to your question. It's like you said : "She has changed so much in the last month. I dont even know her anymore".
As much as I hate to break up a couple... I guess you'll have to think and see when she started to change. Was it when you won the money or before ?
Not every woman wants to marry a man for his money. Maybe she realized that she does love you... I guess you'll have to do the math... When and how did she change ??
2006-11-27 05:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to ask yourself why you continued to stay with someone who claimed not to love you much and refused your proposals three times!!!! It's pathetic that she jumped from rejection to I"VE GOT TO MARRY YOU NOW! Clearly, it is the money that she wants to marry, not you. Get a grip man and find a woman who deserves you and that loves YOU! Like I said, I am baffled why you kept her on as your girlfriend even before the lottery thing. You need to meet a woman who knows nothing of your money and allow yourself to be loved!
2006-11-27 05:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break and see other people. And don't tell the new girls that you've won money until they tell you they love you. It's none of their business anyway.
Honestly, that relationship was probably over the second time she told you "no."
2006-11-27 05:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, Derek You make me sad for you. If Americans could have more than one husband legally, I would be your wife $$$ or not. i hope you enjoy your money and find someone to love you the way you deserve. Peace.
2006-11-27 05:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy 18 miles of barbed wire!
2006-11-27 05:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Riccardo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a better woman.
2006-11-27 05:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UHHH get rid of the goldigger!
2006-11-27 05:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋