i am 15 n my parents r vey strict wit me.One time my uncle gave me a lot of homework 2 essay,1 chapter of add maths which has 5 checkpoints,10 chapters of general maths n 2 comprehension. All of it needed to b hand by the next day......GOD.....too much homewok to do within a day!!! And i couldn't even finished it in time n when he came the next day n found out tat i haven't finished the work he gave,he took a wip n caned me. It was very pain n my legs were swollen in purple,dark purple,green n red in colour. I hav a lot of respect towards him because he taught me alot n teaches me for free as he knows tat my family n i r poor. He is a good man n a nice man too but he is very strict wit me.Moreover as my major exam is over,he didn't even want to allow me to watch tv or play computer.If i did,he will break the screen.He wants me concerntrate in my studies n i never say it is wrong to study but to stop me from letting me free n always concerntrate in studies.....it is silly.Wat can i do?
2006-11-26 21:07:48 · 6 answers · asked by Frendlygal 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I can't even get out of the house eccept school...
2006-11-26 21:13:24 · update #1
It is right to be strict, but he has taken it too far. The more you study and learn, the better you will be when you reach adulthood. Too much though, is not good because you need time for relaxing and enjoying yourself.
Just remember, your uncle obviously loves you and wants you to succeed. You are lucky to have such an uncle. Work very hard and tell him you love him and you are doing your best for him. Tell him also that you need time for yourself and if you make mistakes, the cane will not be as effective as a good scolding.
If you love someone and you try your best for them, a scolding when you make a mistake will hurt you more than the cane because you have failed the person you love.
2006-11-26 21:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Seikilos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really bad for you that you have to live your life that way. Your Uncle is being way too strict!! A good education is very important but, a child needs a life too. He sounds abusive to me.Where is your Mom and Dad? Have you spoken to them about this.
2006-11-27 00:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you just putting up with that. thats assault. ASSAULT. get a job, get better than him. then come at him with a 2 by 4 and see how he likes it. no one else will stand up 4 u in this life. you gotta stand up 4 yourself.
2006-11-26 21:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that's normal? i can see his intresty in good education, but that's a little TOO harsh. but you know i guess he has a good mind about it, mabye, but that is way too strict.'
2006-11-27 03:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes,, your lucky they let you out of the house.
2006-11-26 21:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he needs to cane you for your spelling as well
2006-11-27 01:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow Kat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋