I am interested in my friends older sister, I told him and he is ok with it. I am only 22 and she is 34 and I really like her, do older woman really like younger guys? I am so tired of girls my own age and them just wanting to go clubing and partying I want someone to snuggle with, to spend quite time with, do you think I have a chance?
2006-11-26 20:55:05 · 20 answers · asked by Git R Done 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a chance.. My mom is 45 and shes engaged to a 28 year old so I'd say you definatly have a chance.. 22 and 34 isnt that big of a difference anyways.. And age shouldnt matter, if you like eachother and are compatible go for it !!
2006-11-26 21:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by BrideofTyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be great. Different maturity levels cause things like this all the time. Dont thing in terms of what older women do. This is a unique person and so are you. Be mindful of the responsibility you're entering into. When you're 45, she'll be 57. She'll age before you. Are you mature enough to deal with that? She'll need help through menopause and the related emotional insecurity. She'll ask if you still love her or want someone younger. She'll probably pass away before you too. These are adult matters. Are you ready for such?
2006-11-26 21:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by jazzcrazy1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is SO major sweet.
Yes, you have more then a chance and if she doesn't want to cuddle up with you it might be because she would wonder why you'd want to be with someone older or feel weird about you being her brother's friend. But hey, let her know how you feel!
I know, that I as an older woman, I was recently approached by a young guy and was puzzled by his exceeding attraction to me.
You sound mature for your age, so that is good.
2006-11-26 21:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. You have just as much chance at a relationship with this woman as any other guy. I knew a couple with this age gap (actually their's was 11 years) and he was 22, and they got married last year, so give it a try.
She can only say no. As long as you're prepared for that, what have you got to lose.
2006-11-26 21:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by kavsmate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you have a chance.but the question you should ask your self is that what if you 2 hook up and you guys date for couple of years and get involved in a relationship,then shes gonna be like 38 and you gonna be just 26 ,are you still gonna want to be with her? your still young,your way of thinking will change alot down the years.and another thing,a 34 year old women is way more mature then you think,she can handle having a family and everything ,,,,can you?????????
2006-11-26 21:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by R.A. 1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, you sound sweet actually. Yes, a single 34 year old is probably tired of guys that just want to party. Ask her out on a date and see what happens!
2006-11-26 20:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might. As long as you are mature, she likely will like you and be interesed. Some older women look at younger guys, but don't think they have a chance, because of the pretty young chicks available.
2006-11-26 21:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a good a chance then anyone else hun. You go for it. My partner is 10yrs younger than I and I Love him to bits, he has taken on my children, they never go without and he helps me to keep a comfortable home for us all to live in. Age is just a number it doesnt mean anything (as long as its legall that is lol) hope everything goes well for you Good luck xx
2006-11-26 20:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by spensmum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are women who like younger guys, some like older guys, some like their own age... Depends on what you are like in yourself.. Can you give her something special???
Then go for it...
2006-11-26 21:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it buddy! my wife is older than me,
i'm 41 and she's 59 and we have a great!! relationship. We dated for six years before we married and it was all I could ask for and still is. Ask her out and just go with the flow....
2006-11-26 21:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋