Should me and my girlfriend get married, we are both 20, and have been together 5 months?

Question

Because she is moving back to her home island in January

Answer 1

I think that if you have to ask, then you probably shouldn't.

Answer 2

you're both too young to get married.. im not saying that you'll regret it but there's a probablity that you would since you've only been together for 5 months.. ur still in a fresh start and you're not in the level yet where you get to discover each other's true colors. after that would be the commitment part... the question is: are the two of you ready to commit or not? it will be a new chapter in your life so you better think about it very well. and besides, having a long distance relationship isn't so bad.. why not try it for a couple of months.. then you'll decide after that whether you're going to push through with the wedding or not.. at least by then you had time to think about it and discover more about yourselves.
anyway, if you really think that you're meant to be together, then why not go for it.. it's an opportunity you'll never have again with the one you are with right now.. just be sure you won't regret it later... ü goodluck in your decision-making! ü

Answer 3

First of all you are too young to get married. Secondly you don't have to decide to get married just because you girl friend is going away. If you are really in love and have things in common you can get married when the time comes. You have to take your time and think about the relationship you have is whether headed to marriage or not. Though your girl friend is leaving there is nothing that stops you from getting married as long as you truely love each other.

Good Luck!!!!

Answer 4

Her moving shouldn't be the main reason for your marriage. That would come back to haunt you later. Do you both desire to be together for every day of life? Have you gotten to know the deepest parts of one another and still love? Is your relationship absent of verbal and emotional abuse? Do you both feel that absolutely no one could replace the other? Do you argue over little things that show basic incompatibility? Do you both feel that you will suffer for life without each other?

Answer those questions together carefully. If you pass through them successfully, do it. But do it for love and do it forever or not at all. NOT IN A RUSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

No your too young to get married. Getting married just b/c your gf is going home seems like a stupid move.

Answer 6

No 20 is to young, just wait what is the rush. If you are meant to be than it will all work out.

Answer 7

NO!
Unless you are marrying her for citizenship.

The five months have surely been magical, but you are talking about a lifetime.

You will probably change your own personality three times before you make 25.

Don't rush.
If it's a good thing, marrying won't make it anymore solid.

Answer 8

THe question here is are you willing to engage in a long term marriage with your girl if she move back to her home town. If yes, then, by all means, marry the girl!!!!!

Answer 9

I would think long and hard about it. Where is her home island. Five months is not very long...when you are talking till death do us part.. as if that happens to much now and days.

Answer 10

if you feel, you are settled in life and having hope to run the family then carry on right now or first try to settle yourself ASAP. Any way all the best for your bright & colorful future.

Answer 11

Ask yourself if you REALLY love her??
Let her go... if she comes back then maybe its meant to be, if not, there's your answer.
Don't rush it tho.
Its not like she lives on another planet and can never return!


Good Luck!