is it ok for a married woman to like 3somes
2006-11-26 20:34:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If is ok with her husband then there is no problem. If he is against it, then there is a huge problem. Depends on the exact situation.
2006-11-26 20:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question depends on who you ask. According to the bible,,, no, that is a sin. But since God knows we sin, He would expect that of us. Now from a "I enjoy sex" point of view. I see nothing wrong with it. I just wish my wife like 3somes. I would love to try pleasing 2 women at the same time. I also think it would enhance my staying power.
2006-11-27 04:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hubby is in on it and doesnt mind then I guess its ok, but I think it would hurt your marriage even if he says ok, because he will never get it out of his head some other guy having sex with you in front of him. Unless of course you mean 2 girls and a guy, then you may have a problem down the road after seeing him with another woman.
2006-11-27 04:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok, but it should be openly talked about with your partner, see how they feel.
Its ok to like it, of course -- Noone can say otherwise.
But whether its MORAL is a question that only matters between partners, and so it should be openly talked about.
For people who like spice in life, a threesome is just the dish to have once in a while, but its important that both partners are ok with this, that way both can enjoy it.
If one feels uncomfortable, then talk it over -- its important that an AGREEMENT is made, not a trade. When everyone is happy, life is better :)
But yeah.. see how your partner feels about it.
2006-11-27 04:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Midnite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, as long as it is understood what the ground rules are. No jealousy, no pain without permission and no 'hogging' unless one just prefers to watch that is. AND unless it is agreed upon, no bragging to everyone you meet because that may cause some real problems regarding reputations, etc.
2006-11-27 04:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by jesshispet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would hope that your partner may be into it too. If youve not talked about it you should. Its not abnormal. But there may be problems if your partner cant understand. It also depends if your going to follow through with it.(man-man-woman or woman-woman-man) It makes a big diff! Talk....
2006-11-27 04:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by justjellybeans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You will ruin your marriage. Jealousy will enter in, there is a special bond between husband and wife and a third person will break that bond and trust. The fantasy will never be like the reality.
2006-11-27 04:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its not okay will you raise ur children telling them that its okay to have 3somes? they would be no respect for marrige nor ur children when u do it
2006-11-27 04:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok, But Not Normal.
U may like it but to have it in reality is different.
It also depends on ur atmosphere and comfort levels with ur HUBBY........
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2006-11-27 04:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! and it's stupidity on the part of the husband is he says yes
2006-11-27 04:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋