Whether it will be resolved?

Question

We are a joint family. After my brother got married his wife wants to live seperately. which they lived seperately in the first floor and afterwards they left for usa. We are staying in ground floor. My father has died, my mother and also elder brother. I was looking after my mother and elder brother,and another brother. I hv took them to the hospital whenever some incident takes place. Has my brother's wife (usa) was staying at chennai. We all four has shifted to chennai. My wife got angry because when they are very much here why they hv not keeping the another brother who was staying with me for two or three months. She started abusing him whatever he earns he gives to me and spent also. She also wants to get the share which was evenly distributed. She does not want my brother to live with me, so he was with another brother (usa) who is staying here. After that what my brother has said abt me and her they have not talked to me nor chatting with me.

Answer 1

YOU MUST CONTROL YOUR WIFE OR LIVE WITH HER AND DO NOT BOTHER ABOUT YOUR BROTHERS.

Answer 2

Hi there,

It is ok that your brother are not speaking to you, eventually they will calm down and thing will be different. It is better to live seperately when things are becoming difficult between joint family. But your wife needs to know that she is wrong in her behaviour. She cannot behave in such an arrogant way and throught her weight around. Speak to her and tell her how you feel.

Good Luck & God Bless

Answer 3

Don't worry. Ur brother is very critical person. If he don't want to stay with ur family, then it's ok. Better. He live separately.

Answer 4

hi it,s better to live indivudally u r brother is a waste fello who listens his wifes words and neglect his family members