Me and my boyfriend broke up awhile ago. It was kinda an open break up...as in I said maybe we could get back together later and maybe we never would. So about a week later I slept with someone else. Now my boyfriend and I are hanging out a lot and he asked me out again. I know I told him it was over but he is acting like I never did. Now we might be getting back together and I feel really bad. I know if I tell him about the other guy he will never forgive me. What should I do?
2006-11-26 20:20:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u want ur boy back dont tell him.
if u dont want him back or want to watch him go nuts then tell him.
2006-11-26 20:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by jezabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know people that have been through the same and now they have a child. She has lied more than once because he putted that same kind of pressure on her. Last time she admitted she lied, he called their wedding off and does not want an other child with her.
Honestly, as I am much older, I don't believe they are going to stay together.
If they do, well, it seems strange that the most important of all your relationships would have their roots in lies....
Something else, if you called it off and he didn't get it, he might be one in denying...
Then I think you really need to talk to him about that break up first and then about the rest...
2006-11-27 04:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not the need to tell him what you have done because you were not together anymore .. as he problably did the same. And there is no reason to feel guilty about it .. i guess this might happen to few people after break ups.
It is better play safe and keep it to yourself and see whether he comes back.
2006-11-27 06:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you practiced safe sex then you dont need to tell him because he wasnt your boyfriend at the time. But if its possible you "caught" something you need to let him know. And I know you didnt ask for anyone to give their opinion about you sleeping with someone after a week, but you really need to take a look at you morals. I know these things happen, but you really should value yourself more than that.
2006-11-27 04:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legs closed, and quit using breakups as an exuse to sleep with someone else. You should feel bad, you knew that the breakup was really just a break.
2006-11-27 04:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you do not tell him. Wether he acts like it or not, you were on a break. Don't feel guilty you did that, you had every right to. Besides, you have no idea of what he also did when you broke up.
2006-11-27 04:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have been so fast and impatient in fact you wanted the brake out ...It is unfortunate that you couldn't even exersice patient for 1 month at least God will deal with you severely pray for pardon from God this is fornication at the highest level.
Tell him and free him pls tell him you are into someone else...Hope you will not contract HIV bye.
2006-11-27 04:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Apelete M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you were officially broken up so really he has no say over that. It is your choice to keep it to yourself or not. But you might feel guilty that he doesn't know it.
2006-11-27 04:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say just tell him. if ur gonna get back together with him, then that will always be in the back of ur mind. besides, u guys were broken up.
2006-11-27 04:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by this girls drivin me crazy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him anything, is won't it your fault. he neglected you. but if you know you are coming back then play your cards well before it leads to anything.
2006-11-27 04:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋