We are classmates in all subjects that i'm taking because both of us is in honor's class (college by the way). He is totally not my type: kinda short, extremely smart, kinda serious most of the time. I usually like much more 'bad boy' type (but not so much badness!), the ones who are always making up jokes, or those who like to have fun... etc..
But I do think he is cute, and he is a really good dancer. I think he's too perfect for me. One day, he's all I could think about (until now)..
We dont talk too much, or at all. I think I only talked to him once and it was about the lesson.
He is so smart and frequently discusses the lessons all the time. I'm the type of person who will get by just by listening a bit but not the entire boring lesson.
I have started to study just because I like him, and I feel that I should be smarter now, so that I can talk to him.
What should I do?
HELP!!!
2006-11-26 19:36:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesnt matter at all that he's not ur usual type!! go talk to him :) start by talking about the lesson, then ask him whether he'd like to go somewhere for coffee or cappuccino or smth! get talking about ur classes. best of luck!
u should really talk to him though. because if u dont even try there's no way u'll "get" with him.
i think its great that ur starting to study because of him. u could also ask for his help if there's something you dont understand. in any case, there's an excuse to talk to him even though u do know what there is to know! ;)
hope everything goes right!
2006-11-26 20:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Weird.Beryl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance and try something new, you never know you could be surprized. How do you know he isnt your type if you havent dated anyone like him before? I think if you didnt give it a shot then you would always be wonderin "what if". And sure if it doesnt work out well ar least you will know that he just wasnt right for you!
2006-11-27 03:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy_L_B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you like a guy that gives a good influence! Nah, just cause he's not your usual type, with all the badness and probably rockstar attitude does not mean you cant go for him! Who knows, maybe you saw a little edge in this guy underneath all that brain...get to know him, go for it.
2006-11-27 03:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easy-- just talk to him. That's really all you can do. Don't make up excuses like 'hmm, we should study sometime.' just be straight forward, because there is nothing a guy hates more than a girl playing tricks to get close to him. But trust me on this one-- I'm dating a girl who is definitely not my type.. and I'm not hers, but it works out very nicely. TALK TO HIM!
2006-11-27 03:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nate C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Face it, you like this guy despite his "shortcomings". Have him tutor you on some of the lessons and also when it comes to dancing. Don't sell yourself short--you don't have chopped liver for brains if you are in honors classes.
2006-11-27 03:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u like him hes gotta be ur type. Go for it, if he gets boring change the subject.
2006-11-27 03:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by ddzaszcxascs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can u like a person THAT much
and him not being your type?
well ill say just give it a shot
talk to him then develop
2006-11-27 03:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by SomeGuy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he ask you out if you not hing out with the bad boy type or maybe he ask you to go dancer just keep getting your lesson
2006-11-27 03:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy sounds good for you... Screw the "type" you're used to.... Go for it! See what happens!!
2006-11-27 03:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how U feel.
2006-11-27 03:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by faustina_gui 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋