my girlfriend that i have been dating now for a year does not have much interest in having sex with me anymore. When we first got together we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. But as time went on the less and less we do now. I have felt like i have tried everything. i feel that i spoil her and i just don't know what to do. If i don't try and ask, there have been periods of time where we hadnt for a month. somtimes she will be extremly horney when it is impossible to have sex, and if i say its not a good idea she will get mad at me. Then maybe an hour later she will have no desire at all. She use to tell me that we couldnt because she was always too busy but we had the whole weekend to ourselves this week and she would always just want to watch tv and then go to bed at 10. I love her soo much but i dont know what i should do. could she have a libido problem?
2006-11-26 19:29:35 · 12 answers · asked by orange peel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my girlfriend that i have been dating now for a year does not have much interest in having sex with me anymore. When we first got together we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. But as time went on the less and less we do now. I have felt like i have tried everything. i feel that i spoil her and i just don't know what to do. If i don't try and ask, there have been periods of time where we hadnt for a month. somtimes she will be extremly horney when it is impossible to have sex, and if i say its not a good idea she will get mad at me. Then maybe an hour later she will have no desire at all. She use to tell me that we couldnt because she was always too busy but we had the whole weekend to ourselves this week and she would always just want to watch tv and then go to bed at 10. I love her soo much but i dont know what i should do. I know she is not cheating on me, she wants me to move in with her. i have talked to her about it, she says its her not me.
2006-11-26 19:49:22 · update #1
oh how cute, know you know why married couple seldom have intercourse
2006-11-26 19:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by happy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a libido problem or it could be a cheating problem. The sex was obviously good when yall first started because she was always wanting it. now all of a sudden she doesn't want to. It could also be that she is just tired of your dik, but I don't think that is it because yall sometimes don't have sex for months on end. it has to be that she's cheating. leave her quickly. and next time don't give it all away so quickly and ive all of your self so fast. pace yourself. absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-11-26 19:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by peach49444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started acting this way toard my fiance at one point...I dont know about your girlfriend but my reasoning was this: it seemed like he was always all over me, groping, touching, prodding...it got so annoying. Even when he tried to start something at an appropriate time, it was just annoying because he always did it. It wasn't even fun or exciting anymore. Just irritating. We talked about it and he told me that he wasn't always trying to start something, he just liked to touch me. And I told him which things bothered me, and we worked it out. Another problem could be that when you do initiate sex, or actually have sex, its always the same old thing, and shes bored of it. Have you tried talking to her about it? If and when you do, make sure that you are both calm and rational, otherwise, nothing will get resolved. Also, don't even consider bringing up matters that are irrelevant (example: gifts, favors, things like that. they are not "payment" to be exchanged for sexual acts).
2006-11-26 19:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be she lost interest in you, or she beleives that the relationship shouldnt be based on sex. but since she doesnt want it on occasions, yet you both dont seem reponding, i think somethings up. either way, check your feelings, do you like her as a person, or as your sex toy? either way ask hwer, if somethngs up. gud luck
2006-11-26 19:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to try and talk to her, maybe she has something on her mind that she hasnt shared with you or maybe shes seeing someone else, or shes not happy with the sex if its the same thing all the time.
2006-11-26 19:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by NeedLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from ?. I mean are you and Indian or a Westerner. Please learn to communicate with her. Communication plays a very important role in any relationship. You don't speak then the fault is yours as you don't really know what lies in her heart. God Bless
2006-11-26 19:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen man maybe she is trying to avoid because maybe she is having an affair outside or she is moving through a disease which she is hiding from you better be care full
2006-11-26 19:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be talking to her not us how do we know if she has a libido problem? maybe your her problem and she just does not know how to tell you, so she cuts of your sex, maybe it's a signal...
2006-11-26 19:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to bring in romance in ur life. then it will lead to sex. some adventurous trip will also do u good.
2006-11-26 19:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes ready to get out and sabotaging the relationship so you'll be the one to be the bad guy and end it.
2006-11-26 19:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex is gone already??? Dude!! NEXT!!!
2006-11-26 19:32:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋